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 <title>Buzz News Roundup, 6/9</title>
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://community.tvguide.com/blog-entry/TVGuide-News-Blog/Todays-News/Fx-Cancels-Dirt/800041173?rssDate=12345678&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;FX has canceled Courteney Cox&#039;s tabloid drama Dirt&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;b&gt;TV Guide&lt;/b&gt; reports.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The Weinsteins have acquired the rights to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.comingsoon.net/news/movienews.php?id=45776&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;adapt Allison Winn Scotch&#039;s novel Time of My Life for the big screen&lt;/a&gt;, writes &lt;b&gt;ComingSoon&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Meanwhile, &lt;b&gt;Variety&lt;/b&gt; has the news that &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/House&quot; &gt;House&lt;/a&gt; executive producer &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.variety.com/article/VR1117987101.html?categoryid=13&amp;amp;cs=1&amp;amp;nid=2564&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Katie Jacobs has nabbed the rights to the New York Times bestseller&lt;/a&gt; &lt;b&gt;Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon - And the Journey of a Generation&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zap2it.com/tv/news/zap-ambertamblynabccasting,0,6304492.story?track=rss&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Amber Tamblyn has taken the lead in an ABC drama pilot called The Unusuals&lt;/a&gt;, about the crazy characters at a New York police precinct, &lt;b&gt;Zap2it&lt;/b&gt; reports.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;If you want AC/DC&#039;s new album, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.billboard.com/bbcom/news/article_display.jsp?vnu_content_id=1003813749&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;you&#039;ll have to go to Wal-Mart to get it&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;b&gt;Billboard&lt;/b&gt; reports.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Despite declining ratings, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/hr/content_display/television/news/e3i1751753614c1db77630958b42c6b3b00&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;TV networks are actually bringing in more money from advertisers&lt;/a&gt; after this year&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/2008+upfronts&quot; &gt;upfronts&lt;/a&gt;, writes the &lt;b&gt;Hollywood Reporter&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The &lt;b&gt;Chicago Tribune&lt;/b&gt; finally found &lt;a href=&quot;http://featuresblogs.chicagotribune.com/entertainment_tv/2008/06/finally-the-shi.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;a premiere date for the final season of The Shield&lt;/a&gt;: Sept. 2.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;According to &lt;b&gt;Variety&lt;/b&gt;, David Schwimmer will &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.variety.com/article/VR1117987015.html?categoryid=15&amp;amp;cs=1&amp;amp;nid=2563&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;head to Chicago to star in a stage production of Our Town&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
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 <title>Men in Black 3: A Return to (Alien Life) Form</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Men-Black-3-Movie-Review-23267095&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/192/1922283/a85c0b1af3512b48_DF-32384_r.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;I saw the original &lt;b&gt;Men in Black&lt;/b&gt; movie so long ago that my memories of the film might as well have been zapped with a neuralyzer (that&#039;s the memory-erasing device the guys use in the movie, for those of you who are also having trouble recalling the original). What I did retain is that the film was funny, fresh, and silly and that it didn&#039;t hold up very well for the 2002 sequel. With that in mind, I had low expectations for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/men-in-black-3&quot; &gt;Men in Black 3&lt;/a&gt;, but the newest installment is just as much fun as the original, and it actually benefits from the 15-year time lapse.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The script for the film is one of its biggest assets and truly sets &lt;b&gt;Men in Black 3&lt;/b&gt; apart from its predecessors. The aliens are still alive and ickier than ever now that they&#039;re in 3D, but the story is more focused on the friendship between J (&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Will Smith&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Will-Smith&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Will Smith&lt;/a&gt;) and K (Tommy Lee Jones) and how it has evolved over the years. We learn early on that K has been keeping a secret from J all these years, and the mystery drives a wedge between the partners. Meanwhile, a treacherous alien named Boris the Animal (played to hilarious perfection by &lt;b&gt;Flight of the Conchords&lt;/b&gt;&#039;s Jemaine Clement) breaks out of maximum-security prison and goes back in time to get revenge on K, who arrested him back in the &#039;60s. The day that K had Boris locked up is the key to K&#039;s secret, so J heads on a mission back in time to save K and learn the truth.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To see why &lt;b&gt;Men in Black 3&lt;/b&gt; is so much fun, just &lt;/p&gt;
read more&lt;p&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Will Smith hasn&#039;t been in a movie since 2008&#039;s &lt;b&gt;Seven Pounds&lt;/b&gt;, and I didn&#039;t realize I missed him until I found myself giggling all the way through &lt;b&gt;Men in Black 3&lt;/b&gt;. His shtick is still the same (he&#039;s one-liners still consistent of dialogue like &quot;Where did you come from? Planet &lt;i&gt;damn&lt;/i&gt;?&quot;), but you can&#039;t help but love Agent J as he bumbles through the &#039;60s, desperately trying to sell his story to people who don&#039;t recognize him - or believe him. You can tell that Smith feels completely comfortable in the role, and in the signature suit, which still looks perfect on him, as he hasn&#039;t aged a day.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Tommy Lee Jones is ever the reliable curmudgeon, but the film mines extra laughs when J travels to the &#039;60s and meets a much younger version of his partner, played by &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Josh Brolin&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Josh-Brolin&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Josh Brolin&lt;/a&gt;. Brolin looks enough like Jones to pass for him, but it&#039;s really his studied delivery and mannerisms that sell the performance. We also get some insight into how K has evolved over the years (he&#039;s always had a penchant for cowboy music, but he also used to be a bit of a dreamer), giving the film an extra layer to the enjoyable banter between J and K. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m not usually one to gush about 3D, but the special effects really come to life in &lt;b&gt;Men in Black 3&lt;/b&gt; in a way they never did in the first two movies. Not only do the aliens look creepier than ever, but the cartoonish feel of the film is taken to the next level with the 3D aspect, especially with the time-travel thrill-ride element. Much like with the 3D movies from my youth, I found myself shrinking in my seat just to avoid being too close to the alien goo, blood, breath, and beyond. Combined with the welcome return of Will Smith, you&#039;ve got yourself a fun, mindless blockbuster.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 10:29:01 PDT</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Becky Kirsch</dc:creator>
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 <title>&quot;I&#039;m a 20-Something Seeking Literary Wisdom&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Books-Quarter-Life-Crisis-23267868&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/301/3019466/4212fa6d5c134a03_gt2.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;This question is from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/&quot;  &gt;Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; post in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;. Add your advice in the comments!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ll keep it brief, because I imagine my issue is one that virtually all women go through at multiple stages of life... Basically, I&#039;m at a certain &quot;milestone&quot; in my life - my first career after college, my first time on my own, my first time having to be an adult in every sense of the word. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Call it a quarter-life crisis, or just a growing pain, but I&#039;m having some seriously deep introspections about who I am, who I want to be, what I want out of life, what I value, what I don&#039;t, my place in the world . . . you name it, I&#039;m thinking about it. I&#039;m exploring my spirituality, my needs in love and my career, my general expectations for life. It&#039;s exhausting!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t want advice on how YOU answered these questions. What I WOULD love are some recommendations for a good book that tackles the issue of identity and, preferably, womanhood. Or any books that you&#039;ve found to have a profound effect on your own identity and soul-searching. Something that helps us explore who we are and practice the cultivation of sense of self and self-love.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Maybe it is a lofty goal to find all of this in a book . . . but I can&#039;t afford therapy. Thanks!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Have a dilemma of your own? &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/manage/new&quot;  &gt;Post it anonymously to Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; for advice and check out what else is happening in the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 03:05:00 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Expert Shares 3 Ways to Make Your Inbox Less Overwhelming</title>
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It&#039;s good to get rid of all the clutter in your life - at home, at work, and even on your computer. Dealing with too many emails can make you overwhelmed and less productive, because weeding through a mess of messages can feel like a herculean task. Organization expert &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.peterwalshdesign.com/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Peter Walsh&lt;/a&gt; shared some great tips for better managing your emails:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Archive all your emails&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;Bite the bullet: archive-don&#039;t delete-archive all of those emails or all of those emails from more than a month ago, and start from scratch today.&quot; You can set up an automatic filtering system that will immediately shuttle your emails to the appropriate category. Most email systems have the option, and Walsh favors &lt;a href=&quot;https://hotmail.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Hotmail&lt;/a&gt; for that function.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Keep your inbox clean&lt;/b&gt;: The organizing expert says he&#039;s &quot;never had more than 10 or 15 emails in my inbox at any one time.&quot; He&#039;s able to answer every email he receives by having them automatically categorized. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Set aside time for email&lt;/b&gt;: Set up a schedule for your emails. Walsh avoids looking at emails the first hour of his morning and does whatever needs to get done &quot;first up in the day.&quot; He then sets aside 90 minutes of uninterrupted time to handle email. &quot;I don’t try to multitask; I think multitasking is a huge myth. Trying to do more than one thing at once, you end up doing nothing well,&quot; he says.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 03:05:36 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Shawn Johnson Talks Weight Loss and Learning to Love Her Body</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/Shawn-Johnson-Quotes-About-Weight-Loss-Body-Confidence-23268980&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/192/1922729/135672635a0c0dbe_144041298.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We are pumped to share one of our fave stories from &lt;a href=&quot;http://espn.go.com/espnw/blog/post/496/i-was-always-trying-few-pounds-lighter?ex_cid=2012_espnW_fitsugar&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt; espnW&lt;/a&gt; here on FitSugar!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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By Shawn Johnson&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shawn Johnson is blogging for espnW throughout her training for the Olympics in London this summer. Follow hers other Olympic hopefuls&#039; journeys on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.espnw.com/?ex_cid=2012_espnW_fitsugar&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;espnW.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;http://espn.go.com/espnw/blog/category/2012-london-olympics/ex_cid=2012_espnW_fitsugar&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Four years ago, I was standing on an Olympic podium, wearing a gold medal, and still thinking to myself how I could have been better. It had nothing to do with my performance - it was all how I looked. Back then, I always felt like I could have been a few pounds lighter. But the irony is, when I look back at the pictures, I look unhealthy and too thin. It&#039;s easy to get into a trap as an elite athlete, because you&#039;re made to feel that you&#039;re never perfect, that you can always be better. That&#039;s how you improve in your sport, but it&#039;s also tough because you aren&#039;t satisfied with yourself ever - it&#039;s second nature not to be. I&#039;d always think, &quot;Just get a little stronger, a little lighter,&quot; until it was completely ingrained in my mind.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://espn.go.com/espnw/athletes-life/7780204/shawn-johnson-takes-us-training-camp?ex_cid=2012_espnW_fitsugar&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Shawn Johnson takes us inside training camp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s easy for people to blame gymnastics for this mentality, but I feel like the sport has improved a lot. The horror stories we heard from generations ago (think Joan Ryan&#039;s infamous book &lt;b&gt;Little Girls in Pretty Boxes&lt;/b&gt;), you don&#039;t hear at all anymore. But I do believe it can improve further and that good nutrition could be a key to all of this, if it were only taught at a young age. Many gymnasts go into the elite level at 13 or so, and a 13-year-old isn&#039;t going to go to the library to read some book on nutrition! She needs to be given the right information on how to eat well. Otherwise, it&#039;s not until she&#039;s out of the sport that she realizes the damage she&#039;s done to her body by not eating enough over the past 20 years.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://espn.go.com/espnw/athletes-life/7611562/shawn-johnson-driver-sea?ex_cid=2012_espnW_fitsugar&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Shawn Johnson in the driver&#039;s seat&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I see all the success we have as a country where the gymnasts aren&#039;t 100 percent healthy, and I imagine how amazing we could be if we were doing it in the healthiest way possible. I don&#039;t think it&#039;s a failure on anybody&#039;s part; the education just isn&#039;t there right now, and it&#039;s just not thought about in our sport. My parents have told me since I was little, &quot;You&#039;re given your body for a reason. It&#039;s OK to be different. Being unique is a good thing.&quot; But I always struggled to believe it. I&#039;m stocky, muscular and short, and I wanted to be thin and flexible so bad! My mom would say, &quot;You&#039;re not made that way, and you&#039;re not going to become that, so you have to learn to accept and love the body you&#039;re in.&quot; Well, some people are born with that appreciation, and some people have to work really hard to get there. Put me in that second camp.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Read on for more on what Shawn Johnson has to say about &lt;a href=&quot;/Shawn-Johnson-Quotes-About-Weight-Loss-Body-Confidence-23268980#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;body confidence and how she feels in her gymnastics leotard.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 03:05:26 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>8 Myths About Sex Differences </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Myths-About-Gender-Differences-23267215&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/301/3019466/f74a839977a53e7a_144210299.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re happy to present this story from one of our favorite sites, &lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/8-myths-about-sex-differences/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Good Men Project&lt;/a&gt;. Today, Agustín Fuentes points out that when it comes to men and women, what &quot;everyone knows&quot; isn’t what science shows.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Everyone knows that men and women are really different. We think differently and act differently because we are wired differently.  I mean look at our brains and genitals: they are just plain different. Right?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Wrong.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What if many of the things we assume about the biology of difference are not so different at all?  What if it is not our “wiring” but the ways in which our bodies and minds develop and play out in society that makes us seem so unalike?  Could it be that men and women are more similar than we think?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/i-dumped-the-love-of-my-life-and-now-she-doesnt-trust-me&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;I Dumped the Love of My Life and Now She Doesn’t Trust Me &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yes, women give birth and lactate and men do not. And yes, men are, on average, slightly larger than women and usually have greater upper body strength. There are these basic biological differences between the sexes and they are important . . . but why always focus on the differences and not the biological, and behavioral, similarities? Ahh, that would be because of gender.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Gender is a powerful reality; it is the perception and expectation of differences between males and females and it shapes both our bodies and our society. Gender differences are real and important, but they are not hard wired or even static.  There is no biological or evolutionary mandate that only women really care for babies and show emotions, or that males are the best at economics and politics and prefer beers and skirt-chasing to domestic bliss. These are patterns of gender roles and expectations that shape the ways we look at our biology and behavior.  They influence the way we expect the world to be. It is the strength of the societal myths about sex that fool us into thinking that men and women are so different by nature.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So let’s bust some of those myths.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Gender and sex are the same thing.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Sex and gender are interconnected, but not the same thing. Sex is a biological state that is measured via what chromosomes you have (XX or XY, usually) and aspects of your body and physiology. Gender includes the roles, expectations and perceptions that a given society has for the sexes. Most societies have two genders on a masculinity-femininity continuum.  Some have more. We are born with a biological sex, but acquire gender. There is a ton of individual diversity within societies and sexes in regards to how sex and gender play out in behavior and personality.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There is an extensive body of data demonstrating this, but people interested only in specific differences between men and women choose to ignore it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Male and female genitals are totally different.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Most people think that male and female genitals are about as different as can be: penis=male and vagina=female. But even this basic dichotomy is not quite correct:  the genitals emerge from the same mass of embryonic tissue. For the first six weeks of life the tissue masses develop identically. At about 6-7 weeks, depending on whether the fetus has XX or XY chromosomes (usually), the tissues to start to differentiate. One part of the tissues begins to form the clitoris or penis and another forms the labia or scrotum. Another area begins to form into either the testes or the ovaries. This means that physiologically, male and female genitals are made of the same stuff and work in similar ways.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Male and female brains are different.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;If there were really deep seated differences between male and female human behavior and biology they should show up in the brain. The genitals start in the same place and end up looking different, the brain does not. Our brains are pretty much the same.  Male brains are a bit bigger than females’ (like their bodies) and females’ brains stop growing earlier than males (as with their bodies).  However, whatever one may believe about other organs, in the case of healthy brains, size really does NOT matter one iota. There also might be a few differences in a small part of the brain called the straight gyrus (need more testing in this one). Other than these minor aspects there are no consistent and replicated reliable differences in male and female brains; it is a human brain . . . but how we use it is another matter.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Hormones make the difference.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Everyone thinks that males and females have different hormones . . . testosterone for men and estrogen for women. Nope, all the actual hormones in males and females are the same: there are no male-only or female-only hormones. Both men and women can get a flood of testosterone when they get into a fight or take part in an exhilarating sports match. Both men and women can get a flood of oxytocin and prolactin when they pick up a newborn baby. There can be differences in the levels, patterns, and impacts of some of these hormones in male and female bodies, but individual variation is often more important than the variation between the sexes.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yumsugar.com/Foods-Kids-Hate-Adults-Love-23165769&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/3/192/1922195/5b6001942ab18cf1_DSC_0040.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every child has a food that&#039;s an absolute no. It varies by kid; my niece loves everything from asparagus to calamari to brussels sprouts, but she&#039;ll turn her nose up at mushrooms every time, no matter how they&#039;re prepared. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I was growing up, I was a pretty adventurous eater, but I &lt;i&gt;despised&lt;/i&gt; frozen peas - so much that I made up an elaborate story about them being my doll&#039;s favorite thing on the entire planet and got away with passing along my helping to her whenever the vegetable was served at dinner. For most of my life, I continued my disdain of peas of all kinds: frozen, canned, and fresh. Then one Spring, I popped open one of those English pea pods at the farmers market and fell in love. Now, whenever this time of year rolls around, I can&#039;t wait to shell fresh peas. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m curious to know your stories: what foods did you hate as a kid that you&#039;ve since learned to love?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;If you couldn’t let anything cross your lips from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 a.m., but you were allowed to eat anything you wanted for eight hours a day and still lose weight, would you try it? That’s the apparent bottom line of a rat study published in the journal Cell Metabolism, which recently stirred up the weight loss pot.
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shape.com/weight-loss/food-weight-loss/top-50-summer-diet-foods-weight-loss&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Top 50 Summer Diet Foods for Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Scientists put groups of mice on different diet regimens for 100 days. One group of rodents ate healthy food while animals in two of the groups chowed down on high-fat, high-calorie feed. Half of the junk food eaters were allowed to munch whenever they wanted to while the others only had access to feed for the eight hours they were most active. The conclusion: even though they ate a fatty diet, the mice who were forced to fast for 16 hours were almost as lean as those who ate the healthy fare. Interestingly, the round the clock junk food eaters became obese and developed health problems, even though they consumed about the same amount of fat and calories as the time-restricted junk food fed mice.
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yumsugar.com/How-Cook-Less-Salt-18921090&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2011/08/35/2/192/1922195/6d7636d9fd062055_t.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;By now you&#039;re probably familiar with &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yumsugar.com/Government-Introduces-MyPlate-17570485&quot; &gt;MyPlate&lt;/a&gt;, the government&#039;s new food pyramid replacement; in case you hadn&#039;t heard, based on the updated guidelines, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/New-Dietary-Guidelines-Say-Cut-Salt-Heres-How-13601833&quot; &gt;Americans are consuming far more sodium&lt;/a&gt; than they should. And new research suggests that &lt;a href=&quot;http://blisstree.com/eat/exercise-and-low-sodium-diet-are-good-for-the-brain-643/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;overconsumption of salt affects cognitive function&lt;/a&gt;. High blood pressure, water retention, &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; stupidity? That&#039;s too much to bear. The good news is that there are plenty of ways to cut down on salt in the kitchen without impacting the deliciousness of your dinner. See a few easy steps, when you &lt;a href=&quot;/How-Cook-Less-Salt-18921090#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;keep reading.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Im-Sure-What-I-Want-Out-My-Relationship-23226764&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/301/3019466/36b27f52bf834d57_main.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;This question is from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/&quot;  &gt;Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; post in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;. Add your advice in the comments!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I am having a hard time making some big decisions in my life right now. My boyfriend and I are currently long distance, but we were together for over two years before that. After he moved, we stayed together for a while and then broke up for a few months because of the distance and unclear future. We got back together at the end of last year and have been trying to make things work since then. We&#039;re both aware that we need to be in the same city to make things work, and I started making plans to accomplish that. The thing is, I&#039;m not sure I want to leave. Or rather, I&#039;m pretty sure I don&#039;t. I love where I live, I am lucky enough to have an amazing job with advancement potential, and if I do move, I&#039;ll be giving all of that up and starting over.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To add another layer, our relationship is not without its issues. When we were in the same place, there was a fair amount of drama, and in the time we were broken up, I was with someone else, and this has caused trust issues and hurt feelings. In spite of this, we love each other, and I want to marry him and start a family. I know that because of his ties to where he is living now, he will not move, so it&#039;s up to me to go there, and not vice versa. I told myself that the move was something I was willing to do so we could be together, but that I wouldn&#039;t do it without knowing he was really in it and wanted the same future I do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recently, though, I&#039;ve been feeling like I don&#039;t want to move at all, and wondering why I should be the one to do it if we both want the relationship to work. I guess I&#039;m just trying to figure out if I should end things and hope that we can remain friends, or if I should suck it up and move for a future I hope we&#039;ll have.&lt;/p&gt;
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