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Before it burned down and became a gift shop called Over Our Heads, what was the name of Mrs. Garrett&#039;s bakery on &lt;b&gt;The Facts of Life&lt;/b&gt;?&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;!-- no strip poll --&gt;&lt;form action=&quot;/Buzz-Brainteaser-2379189&quot;  method=&quot;post&quot; id=&quot;guesswho_guess&quot;&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 04:30:27 PDT</pubDate>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 00:02:00 PDT</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Results-Recast-Facts-Life-619745&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=101  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/users/1/13839/36_2007/folcast33-1.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every Wednesday on BuzzSugar, I post a &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/recast&quot; &gt;Recast challenge&lt;/a&gt;, where I ask you to choose new actors for a classic TV show or movie. The reader who submits the best cast wins a BuzzSugar t-shirt!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;With this week&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;/595568&quot; &gt;recast challenge for &quot;The Facts of Life&quot;&lt;/a&gt;, I actually wish the show could be made again with these new actors! My favorite ideas were the ones submitted for the character of Mrs. Garrett, like &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/jpullman813&quot; &gt;jpullman813&lt;/a&gt;&#039;s suggestion of Kathy Najimy, &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/LaLaLaurie06&quot; &gt;LaLaLaurie06&lt;/a&gt;&#039;s idea of Kathy Bates and Jane Fonda, as put forth by &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/leeluvfashion&quot; &gt;leeluvfashion&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/Hollisterbabe01&quot; &gt;Hollisterbabe01&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I also thought Kaycee Stroh would be perfect as Natalie, as &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/ddene5713&quot; &gt;ddene5713&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/SugarySweet022&quot; &gt;SugarySweet022&lt;/a&gt; suggested. And finally, Martha MacIsaac from &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/Superbad&quot; &gt;Superbad&lt;/a&gt; is a great pick for Jo, as posited by &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/brainstormchaser&quot; &gt;brainstormchaser&lt;/a&gt;. Overall, though, my favorite recast list this week comes from &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/rinxy&quot; &gt;rinxy&lt;/a&gt;! To see who rinxy chose, along with a new cast photo, &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;rinxy&#039;s cast:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Blair - Amanda Seyfried&lt;br /&gt;
Tootie - Raven-Symoné&lt;br /&gt;
Natalie - Nikki Blonsky&lt;br /&gt;
Jo - Amanda Bynes&lt;br /&gt;
Mrs. Garrett - Caroline Rhea&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 20:46:05 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Recast &quot;The Facts of Life&quot; and Win a Prize!</title>
 <link>http://www.buzzsugar.com/Recast-Facts-Life-Win-Prize-595568</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Recast-Facts-Life-Win-Prize-595568&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=101  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/users/1/13839/36_2007/folcast33-1.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every Wednesday on BuzzSugar, I post a &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/recast&quot; &gt;Recast challenge&lt;/a&gt;, where I ask you to choose new actors for a classic TV show or movie. The reader who submits the best cast wins a BuzzSugar t-shirt!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Oh, how I miss Tootie, Blair, Jo and Natalie! And Mrs. Garrett, always at the ready with her witticisms and kindly advice. I know nothing and nobody can replace the comfort and joy that the original cast of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0078610/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&quot;The Facts of Life&quot;&lt;/a&gt; provided, but if you could recast this beloved sitcom in this day and age, who would you pick for the central characters? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Leave your entry in the comment section below, and I&#039;ll pick one winner to feature Tuesday, September 11, complete with a &quot;new&quot; cast photo. To see a list of characters to recast and a photo of the BuzzSugar t-shirt, &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Characters to recast:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Blair (Lisa Whelchel)&lt;br /&gt;
Tootie (Kim Fields)&lt;br /&gt;
Natalie (Mindy Cohn)&lt;br /&gt;
Jo (Nancy McKeon)&lt;br /&gt;
Mrs. Garrett (Charlotte Rae)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;The BuzzSugar t-shirt&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bellasugar.com/10-Interesting-Facts-About-Scent-Smells-15169338&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/3/192/1922153/5d2cdf2351e5d99a_Olfaction.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;We all have a sense of smell, and we all use it constantly, whether we realize it or not. Scents and smell are two of the most important yet often overlooked elements of everyday experience. Want to learn a few truly amazing facts about the things your nose knows? Then just &lt;a href=&quot;/10-Interesting-Facts-About-Scent-Smells-15169338#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;keep reading.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <title>Find Out More About Virgin Olympian Lolo Jones </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Lolo-Jones-Virginity-23223241&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/301/3019466/7ffb7edf2d96c07c_main.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Track and field star Lolo Jones isn&#039;t an Olympic virgin, considering she competed in the 2008 games, but she is a virgin in the traditional sense. You might think that an almost-30-year-old virgin would not advertise the fact that she&#039;s never had sex, but &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20597570,00.html?xid=tressugar&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Olympian Lori &quot;Lolo&quot; Jones isn&#039;t shy about her virginity&lt;/a&gt;. Later-in-life virgins have a new celebrity role model in 29-year-old Lolo, as she&#039;s been opening up in interviews and on Twitter about online dating difficulties and keeping her V-card until marriage. On HBO&#039;s &lt;b&gt;Real Sports With Bryant Gumbel&lt;/b&gt;, the hurdle jumper said:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&quot;This journey has been hard. It&#039;s the hardest thing I&#039;ve ever done in my life. Harder than training for the Olympics. Harder than studying for college has been staying a virgin before marriage. I&#039;ve been tempted. I&#039;ve had guys tell me . . . &#039;Hey, you know, if you have sex, it&#039;ll help you run faster.&#039; If you marry me, then yeah.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Keeping her virginity hasn&#039;t been the only hurdle Lolo has had to overcome. She grew up bouncing from school to school with a single mom who had to work multiple jobs to support her family, even living in a church basement at one point. After splitting from her family to pursue her track-and-field dreams, Lolo went on to excel in school and to become the accomplished Olympian she is today. Now, Lolo gives back to those in need with her charitable activities and involvement in Christian ministries. She definitely proves that you don&#039;t have to be having sex to be a strong, sexy woman to watch. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;See more pics of Lolo in action and on the red carpet now!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 14:23:37 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Bachelorette Breakdown: The Week&#039;s Biggest Whoa!-ments</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Bachelorette-Week-Two-Recap-23219994&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/192/1922283/351b35afc4e20e69_127847_0243_pre.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Week two on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/The-Bachelorette&quot; &gt;The Bachelorette&lt;/a&gt; brought plenty of action, and I&#039;m not just talking about the chemistry between Emily and Kermit - though that was slightly uncomfortable. No, I&#039;m referring to the first one-on-one dates, the first group date, and all the poolside drama. It looks like we&#039;ve got a veritable &lt;b&gt;Real Housewives of Charlotte&lt;/b&gt; on our hands, only in this case the housewives are men and Botox is replaced by Muscle Milk. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m recounting the good times, and the especially bad times, from this week&#039;s episode when you &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt; When Emily told Ryan they&#039;d be baking cookies for her daughter&#039;s soccer team on the show&#039;s first one-on-one date, I was like, &lt;i&gt;Whoa.&lt;/i&gt; No doubt this guy thought the only food preparation he&#039;d have to do on &lt;b&gt;The Bachelorette&lt;/b&gt; would be stomping his own grapes when producers flew him and his date to the scenic Napa Valley, and even then it would all just be for show and they&#039;d get to drink perfectly aged Merlot by the fire while staring into each other&#039;s eyes. Not this season, buddy!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; When Ricki showed up in the audience of the group date, I was like, &lt;i&gt;Whoa!&lt;/i&gt; Wasn&#039;t the whole purpose of bringing the show to Charlotte so that Emily could still maintain some semblance of normalcy in her daughter&#039;s life? First she brings Ryan to soccer practice (but makes him wait in the car mere yards away from her daughter) and now this? (Side note: I kept thinking they should have rolled up the tinted window, lest Ricki see the strange man in her mother&#039;s car, but then it occurred to me that he might suffocate in the South Carolina heat.) Actually, come to think of it, watching your mom be the ringleader in a variety show starring the Muppets and a dozen suitors (one of which will be your new daddy!) is pretty commonplace nowadays.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Whilst lounging in the hot tub, Kalon let slip that he thought Doug &quot;put being a dad on hold&quot; to be on the show, and Doug was all, &lt;i&gt;Whoa&lt;/i&gt;. Despite the fact that Kalon is coming off like a tool and clearly making no friends, Doug overreacted a touch and told him to &quot;check it,&quot; but in a much more serious way. Kalon tried to interject, and again Doug was like, &quot;Check it.&quot; I believe the phrase he&#039;s looking for is actually &quot;Check yourself before you wreck yourself, bro.&quot; It also appears that Kalon is no longer &quot;Helicopter Guy&quot; and has now been given the nickname &quot;Chopper,&quot; which the guys think is derogatory, but which is actually really cool and something I might try to get my friends to call me.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; Meanwhile, Emily went on her date with Joe. The two dined at her local &lt;span class=&quot;nobrand&quot;&gt;cotillion&lt;/span&gt; venue and put their hopes and dreams in the &quot;love clock.&quot; After laying out his wishes to come back to Charlotte to marry her, Emily told Joe he wasn&#039;t the guy for her, and Joe was like, &lt;i&gt;Whoa&lt;/i&gt;. It was brutal, but it was necessary.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; After the loads of private time he got with her this week, Ryan still thought it would be kosher to monopolize Emily&#039;s time before the final elimination. He did this by writing her a seven-page letter and then making her read it to him out loud. It took 15 minutes, which is about two weeks in &lt;b&gt;Bachelorette&lt;/b&gt; hours. This wouldn&#039;t be quite so bad if Taylor wasn&#039;t awkwardly waiting in the wings, caught in the unfortunate position of either backing down or breaking mid-letter-read. All the guys who were watching from outside were like, &lt;i&gt;Whoa.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Did I miss any whoa!-ments?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Photo courtesy of &lt;a href=&quot;http://abc.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;ABC&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 09:13:48 PDT</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Maggie Pehanick</dc:creator>
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 <title>&quot;I Snooped and Found Something . . . Now What?&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/I-Snooped-My-Boyfriends-Phone-23204042&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/1/301/3019466/91c2af846ced96fa_GT-2.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;This question is from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/&quot;  &gt;Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; post in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;. Add your advice in the comments!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ll try my best to make this short. I really appreciate any and all advice here, I am so stumped on what to do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My boyfriend and I have been together for about three months now. I&#039;m 24 he is 28. We met at work, and were not really friends before we started dating. So basically I have some trust issues because I don&#039;t really know much about his dating life before we got together, other than the fact that he was kind of a player. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We have an interesting relationship. Most of the time we are great, have a good time together. He told me he loved me first, probably about two months in. That was a big deal for him because he had only said it to one girl before, and they dated for five years. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A couple weeks ago we had a bad string of fights about all sorts of things, but the past couple weeks have been great with no problems. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m not really sure how much of this back story is relevant, but there it is anyway lol. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So back to my trust issues.... I snooped in his phone last night because I just had a bad feeling. I know it&#039;s totally wrong and an invasion of privacy, but I couldn&#039;t help it. Anyways, I found something. A text conversation between him and another girl from last Saturday late night / Sunday afternoon. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This conversation happened when he was away at a bachelor party all weekend on a boat with a bunch of guys. I was under the impression that he didn&#039;t have cell phone service out there, so seeing that he was talking to anyone was kind of a shock, because I didn&#039;t hear from him until Monday, only one little text on Saturday. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He initiated the convo, asking for her to send him a video. She responded that her boyfriend probably wouldn&#039;t like the type of video he was trying to get her to send. He then asked her for a picture of her boobs the next afternoon. Thankfully she didn&#039;t send one. The whole convo was only around 10 texts, and in it he also made a comment implying that he didn&#039;t have a girlfriend. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t want to be conceited, but I&#039;m an attractive girl. This girl he was talking to is really not that pretty and also pretty white trash. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also I&#039;m not a prude, we have a great sex life and see each other all the time, so it&#039;s not like he&#039;s missing anything in that department. I had actually sent him a naked picture two days before this, so why would he go asking another girl for the same thing?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m so confused. I really don&#039;t know what to do in this situation, so please if anyone has been there, let me know how you handled it. I really want to trust him deep down, and don&#039;t think he&#039;s actually cheating on me, but this is definitely not ok behavior. What do I do?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks for any help!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/Should-I-Make-23204948&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/1/192/1922441/3f8995af8a6edbc8_92757141.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Getting a will is not just for those who are on the cusp of retiring. People of all ages should consider writing one, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.businessinsider.com/why-you-should-make-a-will-2011-12&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;says Business Insider&lt;/a&gt;. Here&#039;s why.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Despite the well-known fact that everyone alive today will kick the bucket at one point or another, nearly 60 percent of Americans admitted in a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.slideshare.net/BordersGratehouse/rocket-lawyer-make-a-will-month&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;2011 poll&lt;/a&gt; conducted by online legal service Rocket Lawyer that they didn&#039;t have a will.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.businessinsider.com/13-money-lies-thatll-wreck-your-marriage-2011-11#rich-aunt-what-rich-aunt-1&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;RELATED: 14 Money Lies That&#039;ll Wreck Your Marriage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In fact, one-third said they&#039;d rather do their taxes, get a root canal, or give up sex for a month than lay out their dying wishes in black and white.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;All right, let&#039;s not get out of hand now.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Making a will these days is easier than ever, and if you&#039;ve been putting it off simply because it seems daunting, then you could be making a big mistake. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;You do it for your family&#039;s [future],&quot; says Rocket Lawyer founder Charley Moore. &quot;[A will] enables you to start thinking about issues like whether you have the right insurance coverage, life insurance, and ways of replacing your lost income.&quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Whether you&#039;re 22 years old and just ran your umpteenth marathon or you&#039;re ready to retire, laying out an estate plan should definitely be near the top of your to-do list.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;It&#039;s one of the three most important documents every adult should have.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here are the other two, according to Moore:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A living will&lt;/b&gt;: Also called an advanced healthcare directive, a living will is where you lay out all the nuts and bolts of your end-of-life care. If you wind up in a coma or unresponsive in the hospital, then a living will can help your family decide how to handle your medical treatment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Durable power of attorney&lt;/b&gt;: Choose an attorney you trust to administer your estate after your death, says Moore. He or she will be objective (unlike family members), and their entire job is to follow your wishes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/Should-I-Make-23204948#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;Read on for more.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Greys-Anatomy-Flight-Season-Finale-Recap-23153630&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/5/192/1922283/b2304aada0872b04_128291_0019_pre.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s hard for me to even write this recap because I&#039;m &lt;i&gt;so&lt;/i&gt; mad at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/grey&#039;s-anatomy&quot; &gt;Grey&#039;s Anatomy&lt;/a&gt; right now. The death of a major character in the season finale has been teased for weeks, but it&#039;s not left until the episode&#039;s final moments. In fact, it happens in the first 20 minutes, and once it does, it&#039;s hard to focus on anything else. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ll save my spoilers for below the break, but this is definitely one of the most affecting and frustrating episodes &lt;b&gt;Grey&#039;s Anatomy&lt;/b&gt; has ever seen, and considering there&#039;s been a ferry crash, bomb scares, and a Seattle Grace shooter, that&#039;s saying a lot. As Cristina astutely observes, &quot;I don&#039;t understand how this keeps happening.&quot; There&#039;s a lot to go over, like the plane crash, the fate of the residents, and what we&#039;ll be wondering about all Summer long, so let&#039;s get the depressing party started when you &lt;/p&gt;
read more&lt;p&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;I hope you&#039;re ready for a rant, because I couldn&#039;t be more upset about Lexie&#039;s death. She&#039;s one of the few characters that I&#039;ve continued to root for and sympathize with over the years, and her will-they-or-won&#039;t-they with Mark is one of the biggest reasons I still loved the show this season. Yes, she and Mark got a bittersweet farewell in which he finally confesses his feelings for her, but I just sat there wishing she&#039;d miraculously wake up right up until the final scene. I applaud Shonda Rhimes and the rest of the show&#039;s writers for taking big risks that will seriously impact the audience, but right now I feel more like I&#039;ve been punished for sticking with this show for so long.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You&#039;d think with Lexie&#039;s quick death, the rest of the doctors in the crash would be in the clear for the rest of the episode, but that&#039;s not so. Meredith and Cristina seem to be OK, but Arizona&#039;s got a hideous gash in her leg, Mark&#039;s teetering on the brink of death, and Derek may very well lose his hand. For a second I thought we were going to lose Mark too in a sort of Romeo and Juliet move from the writers, but we don&#039;t even get closure on what will happen to the current survivors. Which brings us to the next question: how will the surgeons get out of this mess? And will everyone besides Lexie survive?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;One doctor we won&#039;t be seeing more of is Teddy, who gets a job offer to serve her country again. She passes up the opportunity, and when Owen questions her loyalty, she admits that she&#039;s staying to watch over Owen since Cristina is on her way out. Owen then pulls out the trump card and fires Teddy so she&#039;ll be forced to leave the hospital. Though she&#039;s angry at first, it&#039;s clear that she&#039;s actually relieved to be leaving the hospital where Henry died. I&#039;ve always liked having Kim Raver on the show, but Teddy&#039;s storyline hit its peak with her marriage to Henry, and has been kind of stale ever since his death. That said, I&#039;m glad the door is still open for her to return.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Both Karev and Jackson decide to leave Seattle Grace for Johns Hopkins and Tulane, respectively. Karev leaves Arizona a voicemail explaining that he needs to see what he&#039;s made of without his mentor, while Jackson just seems to want to get away from all of the Seattle Grace drama, April included. As for April, she&#039;s hating life because she&#039;s not a virgin and she didn&#039;t pass her boards, and because Jackson is leaving. So that leaves us with Teddy, Jackson, Karev, and April all flying the coop. If all of these characters (plus Lexie) are really gone for good, there had better be an impressive lineup of new cast members coming in for season nine.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;There&#039;s one silver lining in this dark cloud of an episode, and that&#039;s Bailey&#039;s happiness with Ben. She&#039;s one of the few characters whose problems seem completely trivial this week (what with her life not being in jeopardy and all). Though Ben is moving to LA, she&#039;s agreed to marry him and do a long-distance relationship - and she actually seems pretty content. In a way, it almost feels like this is Bailey&#039;s redemption for the trauma she experienced in the season six shooter finale. Not only is she completely uninvolved with the plane crash, but she actually gets a happy ending. At least until she finds out that most of her friends have been in yet another horrific accident.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This season finale definitely ranks high on the scale of shocking finales. Are you as bummed as I am about Lexie&#039;s death? Which characters do you think will still be around next season?&lt;/p&gt;
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