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Reading the description of the 2006 French comedy &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0778784/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Mon meilleur ami&lt;/a&gt; (&lt;b&gt;My Best Friend&lt;/b&gt;), it sounds perfectly Wes Anderson-y, so it&#039;s no wonder that &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.variety.com/article/VR1117991962.html?categoryid=13&amp;amp;cs=1&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Anderson has signed on to write&lt;/a&gt; and possibly direct a remake of the film. &lt;b&gt;Variety&lt;/b&gt; explains the movie&#039;s plot:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;The French pic starred Daniel Auteuil as a cranky antiques dealer who learns at a dinner with his closest acquaintances that none of them really like him because of his harsh manner and selfishness. When his business partner bets him a valuable vase that he can’t produce a best friend, the dealer tries to get an amiable cab driver to pose as his buddy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anderson&#039;s most recent project is an animated adaptation of Roald Dahl&#039;s &lt;b&gt;The Fantastic Mr. Fox&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Have you seen &lt;b&gt;My Best Friend&lt;/b&gt;? Can you see a remake in Wes Anderson&#039;s hands?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://pro.imdb.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <title>Milla Jovovich Tells Us Her Cannes Highlight During a Night With Heidi, Alec, and the Hiltons</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Celebrities-Cannes-Party-Pictures-23246871&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/192/1922398/38b9ebf6e1cf714f_1.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last night was a busy one for many celebrities at Cannes. Milla Jovovich was decked out to make the rounds, starting at the Chopard and L&#039;Oréal bash at the Hotel Martinez. She mingled at L&#039;Oréal with fellow brand ambassadors Luisana Lopilato and model Natasha Poly. We caught a moment with Milla at the soiree, and she spoke about what her favorite part of the festival has been. Milla said, &quot;The last two years I brought my daughter, so it&#039;s all about getting my work done and getting back to bed to sleep with my little girl. She was all day at the beach - loves it, loves it. She met a little friend here. They&#039;re best friends now - in the whole world - after one day together.&quot; Milla and her husband Paul W. S. Anderson are the proud parents of 4-year-old Ever. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The next stop on the party agenda was de Grisogono&#039;s Glam Extravaganza at the Hotel du Cap-Eden-Roc in nearby Antibes. There, Milla caught up with celeb pals like &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Heidi Klum&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Heidi-Klum&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Heidi Klum&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Alec Baldwin&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Alec-Baldwin&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Alec Baldwin&lt;/a&gt; and his fiancée Hilaria Thomas, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Adrien Brody&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Adrien-Brody&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Adrien Brody&lt;/a&gt;, and the Hilton sisters. Both Nicky and Paris are making the rounds this week. Nicky, though, has her new boyfriend in town, too - we spotted her out on a dinner date with new guy James Rothschild, an English banking heir. Make sure to stay on top of all our Cannes coverage by following &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.twitter.com/PopSugar&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;PopSugar on Twitter&lt;/a&gt; and see which &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Cannes-Film-Festival-Pictures-2012-23129985&quot; &gt;celebrities are at Cannes&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 05:20:41 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>5 Things You Always Wanted to Know About Paying For College</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/Important-Facts-About-Paying-College-23229953&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/192/1922441/2ae02de6ef8599bf_dv1644043.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Paying for college is such a complex issue. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.learnvest.com/2012/05/the-5-most-common-paying-for-college-questions-answered-by-a-cfp/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;LearnVest&lt;/a&gt; helps simplify it by answering some key questions in regard to paying tuition.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you believe everything you read, then you might think you need to be a Rockefeller to have kids.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That, of course, isn&#039;t the case.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yes, kids are expensive, and thinking about paying for a college education can be scary and frustrating . . . but that&#039;s where we come in.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.learnvest.com/2012/05/life-after-college-4-rules-for-the-real-world/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;RELATED: Life After College: 4 Rules for the Real World&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As with everything else in life, figuring out what to do about your kid&#039;s college savings is all about the planning, says Stephany Kirkpatrick, CFP, LearnVest&#039;s director of financial planning. Depending on where you are in life right now and how old your kids are, you may have questions about how to set up a 529 plan (which is an education savings plan designed to help families set aside funds for future college costs), what to look for, and when to start saving.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;If you&#039;re pregnant or have a newborn&lt;/b&gt; and are starting to think about this, then good for you! The earlier you get started socking away cash for their college, the easier it will be. You&#039;ll learn a lot in this article, but you should also check out our Baby on Board Bootcamp, which will tell you everything you need to know - financially - to be ready for a baby. It includes 529 advice, as well as financial tips on everything from putting together a will and picking out a life insurance policy to buying nursery basics.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;If your kid is slightly older and you’ve done your research&lt;/b&gt; but haven’t yet started saving in a 529 plan, then first &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.learnvest.com/2011/10/4-mistakes-to-avoid-when-choosing-a-529-plan/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;read the four mistakes to avoid&lt;/a&gt; when choosing a 529 plan, and then check out the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.learnvest.com/2012/03/the-ins-and-outs-of-saving-for-college/&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;different college savings plans&lt;/a&gt; available to you.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;If this is the first you’re thinking about it, no matter your kid&#039;s age&lt;/b&gt;I, then don&#039;t worry about it. You have to start somewhere!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/Important-Facts-About-Paying-College-23229953#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;Read on for more.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 00:15:23 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>&quot;I Snooped and Found Something . . . Now What?&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/I-Snooped-My-Boyfriends-Phone-23204042&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/1/301/3019466/91c2af846ced96fa_GT-2.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;This question is from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/&quot;  &gt;Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; post in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;. Add your advice in the comments!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ll try my best to make this short. I really appreciate any and all advice here, I am so stumped on what to do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My boyfriend and I have been together for about three months now. I&#039;m 24 he is 28. We met at work, and were not really friends before we started dating. So basically I have some trust issues because I don&#039;t really know much about his dating life before we got together, other than the fact that he was kind of a player. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We have an interesting relationship. Most of the time we are great, have a good time together. He told me he loved me first, probably about two months in. That was a big deal for him because he had only said it to one girl before, and they dated for five years. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A couple weeks ago we had a bad string of fights about all sorts of things, but the past couple weeks have been great with no problems. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m not really sure how much of this back story is relevant, but there it is anyway lol. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So back to my trust issues.... I snooped in his phone last night because I just had a bad feeling. I know it&#039;s totally wrong and an invasion of privacy, but I couldn&#039;t help it. Anyways, I found something. A text conversation between him and another girl from last Saturday late night / Sunday afternoon. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This conversation happened when he was away at a bachelor party all weekend on a boat with a bunch of guys. I was under the impression that he didn&#039;t have cell phone service out there, so seeing that he was talking to anyone was kind of a shock, because I didn&#039;t hear from him until Monday, only one little text on Saturday. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He initiated the convo, asking for her to send him a video. She responded that her boyfriend probably wouldn&#039;t like the type of video he was trying to get her to send. He then asked her for a picture of her boobs the next afternoon. Thankfully she didn&#039;t send one. The whole convo was only around 10 texts, and in it he also made a comment implying that he didn&#039;t have a girlfriend. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t want to be conceited, but I&#039;m an attractive girl. This girl he was talking to is really not that pretty and also pretty white trash. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also I&#039;m not a prude, we have a great sex life and see each other all the time, so it&#039;s not like he&#039;s missing anything in that department. I had actually sent him a naked picture two days before this, so why would he go asking another girl for the same thing?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m so confused. I really don&#039;t know what to do in this situation, so please if anyone has been there, let me know how you handled it. I really want to trust him deep down, and don&#039;t think he&#039;s actually cheating on me, but this is definitely not ok behavior. What do I do?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks for any help!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Have a dilemma of your own? &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/manage/new&quot;  &gt;Post it anonymously to Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; for advice and check out what else is happening in the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 03:05:00 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>5 Solutions to Beginner Bike Commuting Problems</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/How-Start-Bike-Commute-23114960&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/2/192/1922729/33db7af2b3ca597d_101109231.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;That fact that it&#039;s National Bike Month and the warmer Spring days may mean you have cycling on the brain. Whether you&#039;re participating in your city&#039;s Bike to Work program or you&#039;re starting a commuting routine, here are some solutions to your newbie concerns.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;I don&#039;t know my route:&lt;/b&gt; Finding a bike-friendly route is especially crucial if you&#039;re a cycling newbie, so before your actual commute, find out how the cyclists in your area do it, plan or map your route and test-ride it when the roads are not so busy. Keep in mind, the best (and safest) cycling route is not always the same way you get there when driving or on the bus. Read more about &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/Bike-Commuting-Tips-17795140&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;how to plan and prepare for your bike commute here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;I don&#039;t know what gear I need:&lt;/b&gt; Commuting by bike demands that attention is paid to what you&#039;re wearing and carrying. Stretchy, comfortable office attire is key, for example, and you&#039;re gonna have to ditch that purse for an all-weather cycling bag or backpack (or at least buy a basket to dump your stuff into). There&#039;s more; find out exactly &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/What-Every-Bike-Commuter-Needs-22626464&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;which five essentials you need if you&#039;re bike commuting here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;See more tips on bike commuting &lt;a href=&quot;/How-Start-Bike-Commute-23114960#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the break!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/How-Stop-Wasting-Food-23153894&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/4/192/1922441/7528dea32e26bba5_1.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Go the extra mile with your food budget with these tips from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.learnvest.com/2012/05/8-easy-ways-to-get-more-from-your-food-budget/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;LearnVest&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;For years, many people - my husband, mom, sister and even my son - told me to stop wasting so much food.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Throwing away half a piece of chicken here or a handful of grapes there never seemed like such a big deal to me. If I was full or no longer in the mood for that particular food, then I had no problem tossing it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.learnvest.com/2012/03/4-meal-planning-services-that-will-plan-your-dinner-tonight/&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;RELATED: 4 Meal-Planning Services That Will Plan Your Dinner Tonight&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That is, until I experienced a bad case of sticker shock during a recent trip to the supermarket. The cost of bread, eggs, fish - basically everything I was purchasing - had increased. And, according to the USDA, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ers.usda.gov/briefing/cpifoodandexpenditures/data/cpiforecasts.htm&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;we can expect prices to rise even higher&lt;/a&gt; this year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As I forked over my money and left with only a handful of bags, I realized just how important it is for me to pay more attention to what I spend on food . . . and to confront how much of it I shove down the garbage disposal.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Unfortunately, I&#039;m not the only one with wasteful ways. In 2010, 33 million tons of food was thrown away, according to the US Environmental Protection Agency. Obviously, wasted food means wasted money, but figuring out how to make your grocery budget go further can be a challenge.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To keep more food in your fridge (and more money in your pocket), try these expert tips.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. Ward Against Freezer Burn&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Those large bags or packages of frozen veggies or meat come in handy when you have a large family, but &quot;each time you open a bag of frozen food, air gets in and will cause freezer burn within two to three weeks,&quot; says consumer saving expert Andrea Woroch. Freezer burn will dry out the meat and make it less tasty. Woroch suggests going small.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/How-Stop-Wasting-Food-23153894#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;Read on for more.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 05:15:48 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Online Dating: 5 Ways To Stand Out From The Crowd</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/How-Stand-Out-Online-Dating-23148965&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/4/301/3019466/b90bc56b86d1d047_sdsdsdsd.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re happy to present this excerpt from one of our favorite sites, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/david-osterczy/excerpts-my-new-book-101-online-dating-tips&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;. Today, David Osterczy gives us an excerpt from his new book &lt;b&gt;101 Online Dating Tips&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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Here is a smattering of tips from my latest book, &lt;b&gt;Dating DeMistyfied, 101 Online Dating Tips.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ve left out much of &quot;the meat and potatoes,&quot; but left in enough content for you to get an indication of what you will learn from this book. This book was written from 10 years of Internet dating experience, thousands of interviews with both men and women and research garnered from our last five to six Dating DeMistyfied Workshops. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Put great effort into writing your profile. Show passion and humor.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I mean really, if you can&#039;t have fun writing a simple online profile, then what sort of person do you suppose that you&#039;ll attract? Way back in 2001, I submitted my first profile to Match.com. I had no experience writing profiles but just figured what the hell . . . let&#039;s have fun!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I wrote the text on a Sunday night and didn&#039;t check my email until Friday night. During the five days I was &quot;away,&quot; I received nearly 150 emails from about 120 women. Yes, some wrote me up to three times during that week! I was shocked, but realized that I was on to something!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The point that I&#039;m attempting to make is to be sure that your personality comes through in the profile. If you&#039;re silly or funny, then by all means, portray that! If you&#039;re really smart and have a lot to say, then say it! If you&#039;re sarcastic - in a good way - then allow that to come through. If you&#039;re not into writing, like many are not, then just do the best that you can but make sure to come across as you. After all, you are the only one that you really know how to be!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Just have fun folks! Be honest and definitely ask for what you want when describing what you seek in a mate. Write in the same manner as you speak so that each person reading your profile feels that you&#039;re talking directly to him or her. After all, that is what we&#039;re all here for!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Make sure to upload only the clearest, best and most recent photos.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;You&#039;d think that this would be a no brainer, but the more you surf the personals online, the more you&#039;ll be shocked at the sheer idiocy of some people and the pictures they submit to dating sites. Photos are your first line of attack, and if they suck, no-one will even read your wonderful, well thought out profile! I&#039;m not telling you that you need to go out and get professional shots taken, but I have friends who have done very well going exactly that route. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Simply put, if you don&#039;t have any decent, clear photos of yourself, then grab your digital (you know that you have one!) and grab some friends and spend the day taking lots of photos alone and in groups. It is critically important that you have a variety of pictures. Have some close-ups (head-shots) so that people can see how beautiful your eyes are, some full length shots so they can get an idea of your body type and some group photos so they know that you actually leave the house and can be social.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For the rest of the article, head to YourTango:  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/david-osterczy/excerpts-my-new-book-101-online-dating-tips&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Online Dating: 5 Ways To Stand Out From The Crowd&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Written by David Osterczy for YourTango.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;More from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/2012152324/5-things-you-didnt-know-about-masturbation&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;5 Facts You Didn&#039;t Know About Masturbation &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/2012152296/most-popular-baby-names-2011-appeal-sophia&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Most Popular Baby Names Of 2011: The Appeal Of &quot;Sophia&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/shay-your-date-diva-williams/4-relationship-deal-breakers-will-kill-any-new-romance&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;4 Things That Can Kill Any New Romance&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;When I started losing weight, I often looked at women who were thinner than I was and thought, &quot;Wow, her life must be so easy.&quot; I knew that once I got to my goal weight, I&#039;d feel awesome, and healthy living would be just as easy for me as it was for all the &quot;I can eat whatever I want and not gain weight&quot; women around me.
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shape.com/weight-loss/weight-maintenance/11-ways-rev-your-metabolism&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;11 Ways to Rev Up Your Metabolism&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now that I&#039;ve lost 75 pounds, I can say that I &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; feel awesome . . . but I can&#039;t say that a healthy lifestyle comes easy. Weight maintenance isn&#039;t as simple as I expected. While being at my goal weight has its perks, I have to admit: I failed to appreciate some of the great benefits I enjoyed along the way. If I did it all over again, then here&#039;s what I&#039;d do differently:&lt;ep&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;See how you can enjoy the weight-loss journey &lt;a href=&quot;/What-Appreciate-When-Losing-Weight-23135530#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the break!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Bachelorette-Premiere-Recap-23113389&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/2/192/1922283/c39a54330c3a0b1b_bachthumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Welcome to a new season of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/The-Bachelorette&quot; &gt;The Bachelorette&lt;/a&gt;, everyone! First of all, is anyone else as excited as I am to see Emily Maynard take the reigns, or roses, as it were? She is sweet as apple pie and I don&#039;t know anyone that doesn&#039;t love a Southern belle, least of all the gentlemen vying for her affections. I use the term &quot;gentlemen&quot; lightly, as several of them displayed relatively ungentlemanly behavior on this week&#039;s premiere. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Bachelorette-Premiere-Recap-23113389&quot; &gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As per &lt;b&gt;Bachelorette&lt;/b&gt; tradition, the premiere included a basic primer to who Emily is, the limo intros with the guys, some time for Emily to mingle at her party and eventually give out the coveted First Impression rose, followed by the first rose ceremony. Let&#039;s have a quick rundown of the episode&#039;s highlights, shall we?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Find out our take when you &lt;a href=&quot;/Bachelorette-Premiere-Recap-23113389#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;read more.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Tom-Cruise-Rock-Ages-Shirtless-Pictures-W-23113535&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/2/192/1922398/1dbad6da1f06615a_a.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Tom Cruise&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Tom-Cruise&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Tom Cruise&lt;/a&gt; is &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Shirtless&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Shirtless&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;shirtless&lt;/a&gt; on the cover of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wmagazine.com/celebrities/2012/06/tom-cruise-rock-of-ages-cover-story-ss#slide=1&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;June&#039;s W magazine&lt;/a&gt;. He posed for a spread tattooed up and channeling his &lt;b&gt;Rock of Ages&lt;/b&gt; character Stacee Jaxx. The movie, a big-screen adaptation of a musical, is out in the US on June 15 and sees Tom paired up on the big screen with costars Julianne Hough, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Alec Baldwin&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Alec-Baldwin&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Alec Baldwin&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Russell Brand&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Russell-Brand&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Russell Brand&lt;/a&gt;, and many more. Tom spoke with the publication about his desire to make a musical at this point in his career, as well as his background in music. He apparently even suggested an addition to the cast to director Adam Shankman. Here are highlights from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wmagazine.com/celebrities/2012/06/tom-cruise-rock-of-ages-cover-story&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Tom Cruise&#039;s interview in W&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;On growing up singing:&lt;/b&gt; &quot;I did the scene from &lt;b&gt;Risky Business&lt;/b&gt; around the house. I would sing Bob Seger - my mother worked, my sisters were out, and I&#039;d turn the music up. I learned how to dance watching Soul Train. I noticed that if a guy could dance, he&#039;d get a lot of attention and girls would want to dance with him. I worked very hard at imitating those moves.&quot;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;On making a musical at this point in his career:&lt;/b&gt; &quot;Kate [Holmes] loves musicals. She sings and dances, and we kind of went through the history of musicals together. And Suri loved &lt;b&gt;Hairspray&lt;/b&gt;. With kids, you watch everything over and over; I watched &lt;b&gt;Hairspray&lt;/b&gt; 15 times with Suri.  I thought Adam Shankman did a great job directing the movie, so I arranged to meet him and said, &#039;Where&#039;s our musical?&#039; He came back and said, &#039;&lt;b&gt;Rock of Ages&lt;/b&gt;.&#039; We went and saw it in LA, and for me . . . I didn&#039;t know how to play the character like that. I had to find my own Stacee Jaxx.&quot;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;On taking vocal lessons:&lt;/b&gt; &quot;I needed to find out if I could really sing! . . . And then I had to learn how to play guitar. I&#039;m very good at air guitar - and air drums - but I had never played an actual guitar. After working for weeks on Stacee’s technical skills, I was thinking about the character, and I said, &#039;You know what? I need a monkey.&#039; Adam said, &#039;What the f-ck are you talking about?&#039; And I said, &#039;I&#039;m serious - I need a monkey.&#039; When Stacee&#039;s not on stage, he&#039;s kind of sad. And I thought, &#039;This guy has to have a monkey that&#039;s his best friend.&#039; Adam found this baboon. He sent me the baboon’s audition tape, and I said, &#039;The baboon&#039;s name has to be Hey Man [laughs].&#039; Stacee Jaxx doesn&#039;t work without Hey Man.&quot;&lt;/li&gt;
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