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 <title>Breast Cancer Awareness Month Spotlight On: Lifetime&#039;s &quot;Stop Breast Cancer for Life&quot; Campaign</title>
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&lt;p&gt;Today, the spotlight is on Lifetime Television, which has launched its &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.broadcastingcable.com/article/CA6486289.html?rssid=193&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;13th annual &quot;Stop Breast Cancer for Life&quot; campaign&lt;/a&gt; this month. The network has recruited several stars to record public service announcements about breast cancer awareness that will air throughout this month; Whoopi Goldberg, Reba McEntire, Fran Drescher, Daisy Fuentes and several NFL players are just a few of the stars involved. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The network also recruited R&amp;amp;B singer Mya - who became active in the breast cancer awareness community after &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lifetimetv.com/community/portraits/portrait/mya-singing-survivors&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;her mother was diagnosed with the disease&lt;/a&gt; in 1998 - to record &lt;a href=&quot;http://ax.phobos.apple.com.edgesuite.net/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/browserRedirect?url=itms%253A%252F%252Fax.phobos.apple.com.edgesuite.net%252FWebObjects%252FMZStore.woa%252Fwa%252FviewAlbum%253Fid%253D265420379%2526s%253D143441&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;a special theme song&lt;/a&gt; for this year&#039;s campaign. The song, &quot;My Bra,&quot; is based around the idea that we can be supportive, uplifting presences - er, &quot;bras&quot; - in each other&#039;s lives. The song will be featured in a new Lifetime movie, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lifetimetv.com/on-tv/movies/matters-life-and-dating&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Matters of Life and Dating&lt;/a&gt;, starring Ricki Lake, who also has talked about &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lifetimetv.com/on-tv/movies/ricki-lake-medical-crusader&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;the ways breast cancer has affected her.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kudos to Lifetime for all the ways they&#039;re working to raise awareness. To watch a preview for &lt;b&gt;Matters of Life and Dating&lt;/b&gt; featuring the Mya song, just &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Greys-Anatomy-Recap-All-You-Need-Love-21707775&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/06/5/192/1922283/7391763a2418d181_Greysthumb2.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s Valentine&#039;s Day in Seattle, which means the doctors are scrambling to get their romantic plans together on this week&#039;s episode of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/grey&#039;s-anatomy&quot; &gt;Grey&#039;s Anatomy&lt;/a&gt;. Callie plans a special surprise for skeptical Arizona, while Mark tries to get out of babysitting duty so he can take Julia out on a date. Derek and Meredith, on the other hand, just need to find somewhere to go for a little, uh, &quot;alone time.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;On the other end of the spectrum, Lexie is having a &quot;woe is me&quot; moment as she pines for Mark, and Jackson and Karev are also left dateless. No one&#039;s in hotter water than Owen is, though: he and Cristina contemplate some big questions about the future of their relationship, and Teddy has some choice words for him when Owen tries to rekindle their friendship. Ready to break it all down? Just &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;Everything is hunky dory in Mere/Der land now that they&#039;ve got Zola back, except for one problem: they can&#039;t have sex with Zola in their bed. This shouldn&#039;t be an issue for a couple living in a huge house, but they&#039;re thwarted at every turn, often by Lexie, who seems to be staying up into the wee hours watching surgical procedures on TV. Lucky for them, they wrangle Lexie into babysitting for Valentine&#039;s Day so they can finally get it on without complication.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;As for Little Grey, when she&#039;s not whining about her sad, empty life, she&#039;s blatantly pining for Mark. When Mark gets candid about his V-Day plans with Julia, Lexie tries to save face and says she has a hot date. To make matters worse, Mark and Jackson&#039;s new BFFship just puts her in an even more awkward position, both in and out of the hospital. After a sweet moment with Mark over a box of chocolates, she finally gets the courage to tell him how she feels, but Jackson&#039;s at the apartment making a romantic steak dinner for Mark in exchange for some study help. I firmly believe that these two are going to end up together, but the &lt;b&gt;Grey&#039;s&lt;/b&gt; writers sure are making us sweat it out.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;There isn&#039;t much drama for Callie and Arizona this week, other than Callie&#039;s very sweet romantic surprise. When she tells Arizona to pack warm clothes, Arizona assumes a camping trip is in store and starts panicking. It&#039;s not until she sees the interior of Derek&#039;s trailer - which Callie has borrowed for the night - that she realizes that they won&#039;t be sleeping under the stars. On a side note: why haven&#039;t Meredith and Derek thought of using the trailer for their own conveniences?&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;Owen and Cristina are still on shaky ground after their epic fight at Zola&#039;s birthday party, and the tension is palpable. I cringed for Cristina when Owen saves her from getting run down by the runaway van but doesn&#039;t so much as give her a hug after he pushes her out of harm&#039;s way. It seems to be a breaking point for the couple, and shortly afterwards, Owen tells a shaken Cristina he&#039;s moving out.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;As if his relationship troubles aren&#039;t enough, Owen also gets an earful from Teddy. He turns to his old friend for comfort, asking Teddy if they can make amends over drinks, but Teddy is nowhere near ready to be chums again. In fact, she tells Owen that she hates him and will never forgive him for putting the hospital ahead of her needs when Henry passed away. She drives the point home by telling Owen not to address her unless it&#039;s work-related. Ouch - and for a second there, I thought maybe these two could rekindle their old flame with Cristina slowly fading out of the picture for Owen. Owen and Cristina do share a moment at the end of the episode, but do you think their relationship can ever bounce back?&lt;/li&gt;

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Did you fall in love with this loved-up episode? Do you think it&#039;s only a matter of time before Mark breaks up with his new lady for Lexie? Let&#039;s discuss in the comments!

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 <title>A Reader Answers: Can Exercise Help With Migraines?</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/Exercise-Cure-Migraines-21618752&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/05/5/192/1922729/9bee43009acb03e7_skd260283sdc.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;FitSugar reader &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/user/JessicaSmithTV&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;JessicaSmithTV&lt;/a&gt; wanted to know: can exercise help with migraines? She asked an expert and posted the answer in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fitsugar.com/community&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Fit Community&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Today&#039;s post comes to us from special guest contributor and medical expert &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.drpaulrizzoli.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.drpaulrizzoli.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Paul Rizzoli&lt;/a&gt;, MD, Assistant Professor of Neurology at Harvard Medical School:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you’re prone to migraines you’re forced to think through whether or not something you do will invite a headache into your life. Exercise is definitely one of those things. Should you skip a workout because you feel a migraine coming on? Or is it better to push through in the hopes a little sweat will make you feel better?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Most headache specialists recommend exercise and an increase in overall physical activity to their patients. However, to date, there’s skimpy evidence to support the idea that working out actually guards against migraine attacks. A few studies have shown that taking regular exercise can reduce the severity, though not the number of headaches.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Keep reading to see what studies say about exercise and migraine relief &lt;a href=&quot;/Exercise-Cure-Migraines-21618752#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the break!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <title>Sexism, Stereotypes, and the Super Bowl: Recent Ads That Sexualize Women</title>
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&lt;p&gt;Sex sells - especially for Super Bowl ads - and year after year, major companies try to get away with the raciest, steamiest ads possible, often at the expense of women. Cars, food, technology - it doesn&#039;t matter what the product is; these ads throw in a hot, skin-baring woman for distraction and buzz. Ahead of the big game tomorrow, let&#039;s look back at some of the most scandalous ads in the last few years. And maybe one day we&#039;ll see more Super Bowl ads that show women some respect.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a onclick=&quot;if (window.shopSensePFlag===undefined) {this.href=this.href.replace(/pid=\d+/,&#039;pid=puid13839&#039;);}return true;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.shopstyle.com/browse/Skechers#pid=22161&amp;amp;pdata=onsugar1922283,21428782&quot; class=&quot;ss_inline_link auto_link_filter no_shopsense_url_rewrite&quot; title=&quot;Shop for Skechers&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Skechers&lt;/a&gt;: &quot;&lt;span class=&quot;nobrand&quot;&gt;Kim Kardashian&lt;/span&gt; For Shape-Ups&quot;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kim teases her trainer by telling him he&#039;s &quot;the best she&#039;s ever had, but it&#039;s not working out,&quot; and she prefers her Shape-Up Skechers over him. This 2011 ad is confusing and mismarketed, because it&#039;s eye candy for men, yet targeting women. Plus, no woman in her right mind would pass up that smokin&#039; trainer for a pair of sneakers. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/Women-Super-Bowl-Ads-21428782#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;Click here to check out more sexualized Super Bowl ads.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 13:05:00 PST</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Greys-Anatomy-Recap-21605751&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/05/4/192/1922283/2270278f1c68efa3_GreysThumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last year we had the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/grey&#039;s-anatomy&quot; &gt;Grey&#039;s Anatomy&lt;/a&gt; musical episode, and this season it&#039;s the alternate-reality episode. That&#039;s right: as Meredith ponders on the veracity of the phrase &quot;meant to be,&quot; we get to see what could have been - or in this case, what was always destined to be. Though this is a filler episode if I ever saw one, it&#039;s still pretty fun to see the characters go down different paths (well, except for Jackson, who pretty much stays the same). &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;What we&#039;re treated to is a preppy-pink Meredith, a geeky Karev, and an even edgier Yang just to name a few. There are also plenty of shout-outs to characters from past seasons, like Izzie, George, and Burke. Ready to break down all of the differences? Just &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;One of real-life Meredith&#039;s biggest questions is what could have been if she&#039;d had a happy childhood, and that&#039;s the jumping-off point here. In the alternate universe, Mere is brought up by her mother and Dr. Webber (she even calls him &quot;Dad&quot;), and as a result, she&#039;s positively sunshine-y. She&#039;s also sort of spineless, needing to depend on mommy dearest to help her wrestle surgeries away from Cristina, who, of course, isn&#039;t her &quot;person&quot; here, because Cristina is too dark for her to relate to. So who is her crutch? Why, that job is now being filled by April, who is dating Charles Percy! Remember him?&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;One of the few dudes Meredith has never hooked up with on &lt;b&gt;Grey&#039;s&lt;/b&gt; is Alex, so he&#039;s her perfect suitor in the alt-world. He&#039;s also nerdy-nice (complete with hipster glasses) and claims that Meredith has changed his bad-boy ways. If there&#039;s one lesson in the alt-world, though, it&#039;s that people are who they are no matter what. For Alex, we learn this thanks to his illicit affair with April - who is still claiming to be a virgin! I know that Alex and April have already had a romantic tryst in the real world, but do you think this is a hint that they&#039;ll get back together?&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;The biggest surprise coupling isn&#039;t even Meredith and Alex, though: it&#039;s Callie and Owen! They&#039;re married with a trio of cute kids, though there&#039;s plenty of trouble in paradise. Owen&#039;s grappling with his PTSD (with some help from his &quot;buddy&quot; Teddy, heh), and Cristina is the only one who&#039;s privy to his frequent outbursts. Meanwhile, Callie clearly makes eyes at Arizona throughout the episode, even inquiring about Arizona&#039;s lunch date.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;Bailey gets a serious alt-makeover, and it&#039;s all because of Ellis Grey? At least it seems that way, as the usually confident Bailey has been replaced with a meek, self-questioning woman with long braided hair. Webber is still in her corner to a certain extent, but without him as Chief, she&#039;s unable to come into her own and shine the way she does in the real world.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;Lexie also has a jarring makeover in the alt-world: what Meredith gained from a happy childhood is Lexie&#039;s loss. We learn that Thatcher committed suicide, and combined with her mother&#039;s death, Lexie is driven to cocaine addiction, dreadlocks, and a plethora of tattoos. She still makes a connection with Jackson, who cares for her in the hospital, but it&#039;s Mark who becomes her knight in shining armor when he finds her after she escapes from the hospital. Symbolism here? I think so.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;However, Mark isn&#039;t exactly unattached. Though he&#039;s mostly out of sight for this episode, he&#039;s part of a big twist at the end. Derek and Addison are still together in the alt-world, but it&#039;s made Derek into &quot;McDreary.&quot; Though Addison is pregnant, it&#039;s clear that these two aren&#039;t in a blissful relationship. To that regard, it&#039;s kind of a relief when we learn that Addison&#039;s baby is actually Mark&#039;s, which leaves Derek to - wait for it - have drinks with a scorned Meredith at the bar. In a throwback to the series pilot, they share some tequila (and maybe more, from what I inferred.)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;

Did you have fun with this week&#039;s episode or did you miss the regular &lt;b&gt;Grey&#039;s&lt;/b&gt; world? Which character&#039;s new life surprised you the most? Weigh in!

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 <pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:20:41 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>6 Winter Date Ideas That Won&#039;t Break the Bank</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/Inexpensive-Winter-Date-Ideas-21313547&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/01/02/5/192/1922441/bd94e94195039955_Inexpensive-Winter-Date-Ideas.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Winter weather offers a great opportunity for cozy, creative dates, so we&#039;ve come up with fun, inexpensive options to keep your social life humming no matter how low the temperature dips. Take a break from the classic dinner-and-a-movie routine with one of these original ideas.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 10:23:46 PST</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.geeksugar.com/Photography-Tips-From-Eve-Arnold-21344189&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/01/02/0/192/1922507/2d0ece444a4a117e_evearnold2.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;American photojournalist &lt;a href=&quot;http://articles.latimes.com/2012/jan/06/local/la-me-eve-arnold-20120106&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;articles.latimes.com/2012/jan/06/local/la-me-eve-arnold-20120106&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Eve Arnold passed away&lt;/a&gt; last week at the age of 99. A Philadelphia native, Arnold spent her life traveling, bringing back images from remote and dangerous parts of the world for &lt;b&gt;Life&lt;/b&gt; magazine (among others), which earned her the title of the first woman to join famed Magnum Photos agency in 1955. Arnold didn&#039;t want to be known as a &quot;woman photographer&quot; though, and just as well, she may be most renowned for building quite the rapport with her subjects. She told BBC in a 2002 interview that &quot;if you&#039;re careful with people and if you respect their privacy, they will offer part of themselves that you can use.&quot; It&#039;s this attitude that helped her capture some of the most intimate images of Marilyn Monroe to date, which she compiled into a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Marilyn-Monroe-Eve-Arnold/dp/081095933X/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1326682788&amp;amp;sr=8-6&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.amazon.com/Marilyn-Monroe-Eve-Arnold/dp/081095933X/ref=sr_1_6&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;book dedicated to the actress&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Whether you&#039;re a seasoned pro or a photography novice, Eve Arnold is an amazing inspiration. Here, three quotes collected from her 50-year career, that can stoke the creative fire and help you capture better images of your own &lt;a href=&quot;/Photography-Tips-From-Eve-Arnold-21344189#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the break.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <title>The Five-Year Engagement Trailer: Segel and Blunt Can&#039;t Get to the Altar </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Five-Year-Engagement-Trailer-20766961&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2011/12/49/3/192/1922283/9025796106101775_FiveYearEngagementThumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;The trailer for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/five-year-engagement&quot; &gt;The Five-Year Engagement&lt;/a&gt; has so much going for it that I&#039;m almost afraid to jinx it. First, we&#039;ve got &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Jason Segel&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Jason-Segel&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Jason Segel&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Emily Blunt&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Emily-Blunt&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Emily Blunt&lt;/a&gt; as Tom and Violet, an adorable, engaged couple that are continually delaying their &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Wedding&quot; href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Wedding&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;wedding&lt;/a&gt; date when other life matters (like job relocation) get in the way. Secondly, there&#039;s a promising supporting cast that includes Chris Pratt as Tom&#039;s BFF and &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Alison Brie&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Alison-Brie&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Alison Brie&lt;/a&gt; as Violet&#039;s little sister. Third, the trailer has plenty of laugh-out-loud moments but still seems like a relatable romantic comedy.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;My only complaint is that the trailer may give away too much, but I&#039;m already a fan of the main characters; Tom is a lot like &lt;b&gt;How I Met Your Mother&lt;/b&gt;&#039;s Marshall (a lovable, fun-loving kinda guy) and it&#039;s refreshing to see Blunt letting loose and showing her goofy side. The film hits theaters next April (just in time for wedding season!) but check out the trailer when you &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 13:29:42 PST</pubDate>
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Maybe to you, being modern is staying up to date with the newest technology, or feeling fabulous in the latest fashions. No matter how you define being modern, &lt;a href=&quot;http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d?http://clk.atdmt.com/CBN/go/342024919/direct/01/&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Let&#039;s Go There&lt;/a&gt; encourages women today to take charge in every aspect of their lives.  A new survey sponsored by Merck found that many women are taking a modern approach to their relationships, but may not have that same mindset when it comes to an important health decision. Do you? &lt;break&gt;Let&#039;s Go There, shall we?&lt;/break&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;According to the survey of 2,000 women in their 20s and 30s:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Modern women are:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Brave enough to make a change.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
About nine in 10 women (89 percent) have &quot;broken up with&quot; someone or something that wasn&#039;t working in their life - most commonly, a friend or significant other.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Modern women should:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Talk to their doctor about finding a birth control that fits their life.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Of 742 women, seven in 10 women (70 percent) would change something about their current hormonal birth control. Amongst those who would change something, 43 percent would change having to take it every day.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What gives? It&#039;s great that women aren&#039;t afraid to make a needed change in their personal lives. However, finding the right fit is important in all aspects of life, especially your health. So be brave! Just like with friends and relationships, your choice about birth control is a personal decision. Talk to your doctor to help you choose what is best for your lifestyle. Not sure what to say? &lt;a href=&quot;http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d?http://clk.atdmt.com/CBN/go/342024919/direct/01/&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;ad.doubleclick.net/clk;242266960;29430810;d&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Let&#039;s Go There Facebook page&lt;/a&gt; gives you a place to start. On the Discussion Guide, you can find questions about your needs and your lifestyle that will help spark the conversation. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Stages-Breakup-Grief-20589776&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2011/11/47/0/301/3019466/d3755aa024909d04_Screen_Shot_2011-11-27_at_11.20.36_AM.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re happy to present this excerpt from one of our favorite sites, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&quot;I think we should break-up.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;I don&#039;t love you anymore.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;We aren&#039;t right for each other.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Breakups can leave the lovelorn rattled for weeks, months and sometimes even years. But there&#039;s a light at the end of the tunnel. Grieving a relationship is not unlike grieving a death. It&#039;s a healing process. But one day, you will move on. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/201168688/20-shocking-breakup-statistics&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com/201168688/20-shocking-breakup-statistics&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;20 Shocking Breakup Statistics&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;The key to getting through a breakup is accepting that you are going to be a crazy maniac for the next three to six months of your life,&quot; says Elina Furman, relationship expert and author of Kiss and Run: The Single, Picky and Indecisive Girl&#039;s Guide to Overcoming Her Fear of Commitment. &quot;There&#039;s no skipping steps so even if you think you&#039;re over it right away, you&#039;re probably not.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you&#039;re recently single, fasten your seatbelt. These five stages of grief can get pretty rocky. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/201063025/its-breakup-not-breakdown-get-over-big-one-and-change-your-life-good&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com/201063025/its-breakup-not-breakdown-get-over-big-one-and-change-your-life-good&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;It&#039;s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life - for good!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;Drunken Denial: A nightmarish state with equal parts alcohol and magical thinking. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;After Andy broke up with me I just didn&#039;t accept it,&quot; says Eliza, 29, who dated her ex for two years before he called it quits. &quot;I continued to call him exactly as I had before, we continued to have sex and then he would push me away and remind me we were broken up. It was terrible.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As with most matters of the heart, we have nothing but biology to blame for the magnetic pull that drags us to an ex&#039;s front doorstep immediately after a breakup. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Initially there is often shock,&quot; says sex and relationship therapist Ian Kerner. &quot;When you&#039;ve gotten used to routines and patterns, those routines are hardwired and hardcoded in our brains. There&#039;s a sense of wanting to resume them.&quot;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Sweaty Mania: A confusing state, during which you experience intense feelings of regret, euphoria and guilt. As reality filters in, you find yourself wildly grasping for relief. You&#039;re injected with confusing and invigorating energy.
&lt;p&gt;&quot;People do a lot of crazy things during this stage,&quot; says Kerner. &quot;I always tell women to watch out for casual sex because men don&#039;t produce oxytocin, so it&#039;s easier for them to compartmentalize a one-nighter or something casual. For women, it&#039;s more difficult. You immediately want to bond with who you are physical with.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Use your newfound recklessness to do something that terrifies you. But pass on the one-night stand! Sign up for improv acting, maybe, or go skydiving.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Staying busy was really the best cure for me,&quot; says Amanda, 26. After she and her boyfriend of a year split, Amanda replayed each and every one of their arguments and endlessly beat herself up until she found a new outlet for her energy. &quot;I trained for a marathon,&quot; she says. &quot;I swear it was just as good, if not better, than therapy.”&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;To read the next three stages, check out &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/2011113788/5-stages-break-grief&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com/2011113788/5-stages-break-grief&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The 5 Stages Of Break-Up Grief&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Written by Melissa Noble for YourTango.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;More from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;/p&gt;
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