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 <title>The Office, &quot;Special Project&quot;: Best Lines of The Night</title>
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&lt;p&gt;In this week&#039;s episode of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/The-Office/&quot; &gt;The Office&lt;/a&gt;, Dwight has been chosen to spearhead a three week assignment in Tallahassee. He&#039;s putting together &quot;a competent team&quot; that will assist him on the mission, setting up a number of new Sabre locations. Half the episode deals with various relationship issues, and the rest is essentially an audition for the team that will head to Florida. There are some important plot points revealed: Val and Darryl vaguely express their feelings for each other, and Erin tells us she wants to head to Florida for good. While &quot;Special Project&quot; definitely has potential, this week just kind of landed flat for me. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Regardless, there are a few funny moments that stood out in my mind. To read a few of my fave lines from &quot;Special Project,&quot; just &lt;a href=&quot;/Office-Recap-Special-Project-21697988#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;keep reading.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 00:11:30 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>The Vampire Diaries &quot;Dangerous Liaisons&quot;: The Good, The Bad, and The Bloody</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Vampire-Diaries-Dangerous-Liaisons-Recap-21693983&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/06/4/192/1922283/c39c39eb6e922925_vamp-thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;The original vampire family hosts a ball on this week&#039;s episode of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/The-Vampire-Diaries&quot; &gt;The Vampire Diaries&lt;/a&gt;, and the whole town puts on their finest formal wear for the event of the supernatural season. Elena has two dates to the event, but it&#039;s her date to meet the original witch that gives us insight into what&#039;s in store for Klaus and his siblings.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Vampire-Diaries-Dangerous-Liaisons-Recap-21693983&quot; &gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Speaking of Klaus, we get some developments between him and Caroline that are sweet and promising (even if she&#039;s a bit cautious to date him because of his cruelty in the past and general bloodlust). There&#039;s also a hot hookup that I didn&#039;t see coming, so there&#039;s lots to talk about this week. To get to the good, the bad, and the bloody, just &lt;a href=&quot;/Vampire-Diaries-Dangerous-Liaisons-Recap-21693983#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;keep reading.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 18:57:03 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>&quot;I Haven&#039;t Heard From Him - Should I Leave It Alone?&quot;</title>
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&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ve been talking to a guy for about three months now. At first I wasn&#039;t looking for anything, I just wanted to go on a few dates with the guy. Sex was involved, but I inserted in my mind that I could not get attached because he had just got out of a long-term relationship as well. He is the second guy I&#039;ve slept with ever and having sex just like that is something I never thought I was capable of but felt comfortable doing it with him. So after an amazing night, he was such a gentlemen and swooped me off my feet and then yes, we had sex. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The problem is, after this night I couldn&#039;t help but to fall for him. I guess I&#039;m not capable of this friends with benefits ordeal. Now that I have let down my guard, the worst happened: He completely cut me off and now I&#039;m crushed. Unless he is a great actor, it&#039;s safe to say he enjoyed that night as well. But now I&#039;m crushed. He hasn&#039;t texted me in over 10 days and ignored me when I texted him yesterday morning. I have a billion thoughts going through my head as to where I went wrong other than having sex too soon. I know I have to move on but should I send him one last text to tell him how I feel or just leave it alone?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:05:00 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>What to Expect When You&#039;re Expecting Set Visit: Elizabeth Banks on Her Fake Bump and Personal Baby Joy</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Elizabeth-Banks-Interview-What-Expect-When-Youre-Expecting-21677377&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/06/3/192/1922283/a8353855e0f0cc1c_banksthumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some of the biggest names in Hollywood will share the big screen in the upcoming comedy &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/what-to-expect-when-you&#039;re-expecting&quot; &gt;What to Expect When You&#039;re Expecting&lt;/a&gt;, which follows different mothers-to-be as they prepare for the arrivals of their bundles of joy. &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Cameron Diaz&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Cameron-Diaz&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Cameron Diaz&lt;/a&gt;, Brooklyn Decker, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Anna Kendrick&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Anna-Kendrick&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Anna Kendrick&lt;/a&gt;, and Elizabeth Banks are among the famous &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/What-Expect-When-Youre-Expecting-Movie-Posters-21490327&quot; &gt;ladies who strapped on fake baby bumps&lt;/a&gt; to portray different kinds of pregnant women, and Banks&#039;s character, Wendy, doesn&#039;t exactly have an easy time of it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I visited the Atlanta set of the film last year, where Banks was shooting a climactic scene in which her character addresses all the woes of pregnancy - in an auditorium with a rather large audience. The hilarious meltdown, which you can see in the opening of the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/What-Expect-When-Youre-Expecting-Trailer-20799281&quot; &gt;trailer for What to Expect When You&#039;re Expecting&lt;/a&gt;, includes harsh truths like &quot;I&#039;m calling it: pregnancy sucks.&quot; It was great fun to see Banks film the passionate speech again and again, especially since the funny lady mixed up her one-liners from one take to another. What was even more interesting was seeing all of the extras who played the audience members, since the group of women was a mix of actual pregnant women and women rocking fake baby bumps. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I chatted with Banks about her own experience filming the movie, and she revealed that she actually felt like she was in her own little movie, since she doesn&#039;t have much screen time with her costars. Banks was refreshingly honest about not having any parenting tips and also admitted that though welcoming her son, Felix, has brought her a great deal of joy, it hasn&#039;t changed her stance on how she feels about kids in general. Here&#039;s more of what Banks had to say about pregnancy and motherhood:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What inspired you to take this role?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Elizabeth Banks:&lt;/b&gt; I cried when I read the script. It has a really great ending: at the end of the movie, everybody has a baby! It really is just a very relatable story for everyone: anybody who is a parent, has considered being a parent, has a baby, whatever. It&#039;s just very universal, what happens in the film. We really explore so many great storylines and different paths to getting a child. I had a unique path to getting my son, so I understand how everybody&#039;s path to their child is different. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How does it feel to wear the bump?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;EB:&lt;/b&gt; It&#039;s sweaty! [Laughs] I think it&#039;s probably a decent approximation; it weighs a good 10 lbs. The boobs weigh about 6 lbs. They are really unbelievable. It&#039;s fun. It definitely makes you sit and walk in a totally different way. As an actor, it&#039;s a great prop.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How did you change when you became a mom?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;EB:&lt;/b&gt; I get drunk much faster and easier, and it&#039;s a big problem, so I can&#039;t go out very much. I find that I underestimated the amount of joy. I&#039;m really learning about my capacity for joy through my son.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To see what Banks had to say about baby fever and her parenting tips, just &lt;a href=&quot;/Elizabeth-Banks-Interview-What-Expect-When-Youre-Expecting-21677377#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;keep reading.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 16:05:11 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>Glee-ful Highlights From Episode &quot;The Spanish Teacher&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Glee-Recap-Spanish-Teacher-21666742&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/06/2/192/1922283/6213d10b9facb146_glee-thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/glee&quot; &gt;Glee&lt;/a&gt; goes Latin this week when guest star Ricky Martin stops by to shake it and teach Mr. Schue a thing about Spanish (which, despite being a Spanish teacher, he does not know). A couple more people find out about Finn and Rachel&#039;s engagement, though Mercedes and Sam are still far more unclear about their relationship. Sue also announces a highly frightening desire to be a mother while clawing at the chance to be a tenured teacher.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;There are some fun numbers this week, but they couldn&#039;t distract from the fact that this episode is all over the place. A couple of the subplots are just plain ridiculous, but it&#039;s not totally without its highlights, so let&#039;s go over them &lt;a href=&quot;/Glee-Recap-Spanish-Teacher-21666742#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the jump.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 09:01:05 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>Tips For Building an Effective Online Dating Profile </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.geeksugar.com/How-Make-Online-Dating-Profile-18453107&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2011/07/30/2/192/1922507/d9676e739aa6776a_computer2.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this digital age, men and women aren&#039;t just hitting bars and coffee shops to snag a date. More and more, they&#039;re heading to the Internet. In fact, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.askmen.com/specials/great_male_survey/dating.html&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.askmen.com/specials/great_male_survey/dating.html&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;50 percent of men have met a woman online&lt;/a&gt; according to a recent survey. It&#039;s obvious that &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.geeksugar.com/Dating-Technology-Facts-15284378?page=0,0,0&quot; &gt;online dating has become the norm&lt;/a&gt;, and for good reason - the Internet gives you more options because you can cover a wider area of partner possibilities (as in, the entire globe). And while your chances are better of finding a compatible mate on the worldwide web than, say, your small town of 13,000 people, the Internet can&#039;t help you if you don&#039;t give off the right signals. First impressions are everything - even virtual ones. Beef up your online dating profile with these tips, and snag yourself one of those &quot;many fish&quot; your mother is always talking about. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Make sure you&#039;re fishing in the right pool&lt;/b&gt; -You wouldn&#039;t go to Craigslist&#039;s Casual Encounters to look for a serious relationship, so don&#039;t go to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.match.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.match.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Match.com&lt;/a&gt; if you&#039;re just looking for a little fun on a Friday night. Sites like &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.eharmony.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.eharmony.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;eHarmony&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chemistry.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.chemistry.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Chemistry&lt;/a&gt; have had a lot of success by getting scientific about the dating process (taking your likes and dislikes and matching you up with someone who&#039;s compatible), so make sure you&#039;re ready to commit before diving in!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Lose the negativity&lt;/b&gt; - No one wants to meet up with a Debbie Downer, so if your online dating profile is riddled with sarcasm, negativity, and pessimism, you can be sure that you won&#039;t be getting many date requests any time soon. This doesn&#039;t mean you have to be fake, just keep the &quot;I&#039;m too cool for school&quot; attitude to a minimum. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;See a few more tips, including some important dos and don&#039;ts for your profile photos, when you &lt;a href=&quot;/How-Make-Online-Dating-Profile-18453107#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 08:02:33 PST</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Kristy Korcz</dc:creator>
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 <title>&quot;I Snooped On My Boyfriend&#039;s Facebook...Now What?&quot;</title>
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I checked my boyfriend&#039;s Facebook while he was away and found that he has been regularly messaging his ex-girlfriend. I know he doesn&#039;t want to be with her - they&#039;ve tried - it didn&#039;t work out and they ended it two years ago. He told me they stay in touch, but I didn&#039;t realize he meant they message each other at least once a week. The messages are normal (they live in different countries), &quot;How are you. What are you up to this week? Miss you - hope all is well. This is what is going on with me. . . blah blah blah.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He hasn&#039;t done anything to cross the line indicating that they&#039;re more than just friends, but the thing is he LOVED this girl and wanted to marry her just three years ago. He tells me he could never be with her again due to his beliefs (he&#039;s agnostic and can&#039;t be with women that are religious).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Despite all of this, I&#039;m hurt. I wish he didn&#039;t have this tight relationship with his ex, even though it is a respectful one.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I can&#039;t admit that I know this, or that it&#039;s been bothering me, because I snooped. What should I do? I&#039;m seriously thinking about breaking up, because I feel if one is done with a relationship, they are done and there should be no need to connect all the time. If I do choose to break up with him though, what do I say my reason is? He has been nothing but sweet/nice to me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thank you for answering!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Keep reading to see how Tom&#039;s family and friends reacted to the news!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I work at a hospital and I met a cook at the cafeteria where I go to every day, inside the hospital, about two years ago. So, since I see him everyday and ask him to fix me a sandwich or whatever, we became friends. We talked every day a little bit about soccer or things like that, nothing too deep. About two months ago, I ended up adding him on Facebook, and he gave me his number to call him anytime I needed something to eat and didn&#039;t have time to wait or something like that (that&#039;s what he said). So, he started to go further, texting me occasionally, offering me chocolates or homemade sweets. Slowly, everybody at work started noticing that he had a crush on me, when I just thought he was being kind. I never liked him, he is so not my type.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One day he started asking me how long I&#039;d been single. So, I asked what caused him to think that, because I&#039;m in a relationship. (It&#039;s been six years, on and off, very complicated but that&#039;s a whole other story). He thought I was single because I had nothing about my boyfriend on Facebook (the last time we broke up was last May and I switched my relationship status and haven&#039;t changed it back to &quot;in a relationship&quot;). &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I started to suspect that he thought I was into him, when all I had previously thought we had a totally innocent friendship. Soon after this revelation, he told me that whenever I went to the cafeteria, I couldn&#039;t take my eyes off of him. Of course, I was like WTF? He knew I had been in a serious relationship, and yet he thought I liked him and was trying to pursue me! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From then on, I kept my distance, keeping the conversations to a hello/goodbye only. Of course, he noticed and asked me what was up. I told him I didn&#039;t want him to misinterpret things; that I have a boyfriend who I love, and I have no plans to cheat on him. He said OK and apologized. The next day, I go to the cafeteria and I find he&#039;s not there. Same story the next day. He texts me and tells me that I&#039;m not going to see him for a while, since everything that happened made him get depressed and that he was going through a crisis. He took a medical leave for two weeks, during which he texted and called me incessantly. I never answered his texts or calls. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I finally saw him back at work, he ignored me. Soon after, though, he texted me saying that &quot;he missed our friendship.&quot; I never answered him. I&#039;ve really had it with this guy; I used to like our chats, but I certainly don&#039;t anymore. I want to tell him to stop texting me completely, but I don&#039;t know how to do it without him suffering from a &quot;crisis.&quot; He is constantly telling me how bad he feels, and how he doesn&#039;t want to come to work anymore, and I just don&#039;t know what to do. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How can I tell him to leave me alone?&lt;/p&gt;
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