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 <title>Buzz Lines: What&#039;s Your Favorite Quote From Fight Club? </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Fight-Club-Movie-Quotes-19062960&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2011/09/37/2/192/1922283/20f81eb27aca6209_Fight-Club-Thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;A lot of punches are thrown around in &lt;b&gt;Fight Club&lt;/b&gt;, as are a lot of great lines. If you&#039;re a fan of the late &#039;90s film starring &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Edward Norton&quot; href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Edward-Norton&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Edward Norton&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Brad Pitt&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Brad-Pitt&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Brad Pitt&lt;/a&gt;, then you probably know the cardinal rule of Fight Club is that you&#039;re not supposed to talk about it - but that doesn&#039;t mean you can&#039;t quote it. Take a look at a few of my favorite lines from the movie, and then share your own in the comments! &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&quot;The first rule of Fight Club is: you do not talk about Fight Club.&quot; - Tyler Durden&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;This is your life and it&#039;s ending one minute at a time.&quot; - The Narrator&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;The things you own end up owning you.&quot; - Tyler Durden&lt;/li&gt;
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Hey, all you fans of &lt;b&gt;Fight Club&lt;/b&gt; author Chuck Palahniuk - the trailer from the movie adaptation of his fourth book &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/choke&quot; &gt;Choke&lt;/a&gt; is tonally what one might expect from him: quite dark and post-modern in its despair, with an odd, social outcast as the main character. Oh, and funny, of course. Also, just like &lt;b&gt;Fight Club&lt;/b&gt;, there are group therapy scenes as this character is a bit of a sex addict. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The movie received a lot of good buzz coming out of this year&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/2008+Sundance+Film+Festival&quot; &gt;Sundance Film Festival&lt;/a&gt;, even winning the Special Jury Prize. The film hits theaters August 1 and stars Sam Rockwell, Anjelica Houston, and an actress I&#039;m always excited to see onscreen again (especially after her performance in &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/No+Country+for+Old+Men&quot; &gt;No Country for Old Men&lt;/a&gt;), Kelly Macdonald.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Who read the book? Are you excited to see this on the big screen? To check out the trailer for yourself, &lt;/p&gt;
read more&lt;p&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Fight Club reunion!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Brad Pitt and Edward Norton will &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.variety.com/article/VR1117971812.html?categoryid=13&amp;amp;cs=1&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;share the screen again in State of Play&lt;/a&gt;, a film adaptation of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0362192/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;the British miniseries&lt;/a&gt;. Kevin MacDonald, who did a phenomenal job with &lt;a href=&quot;/213542&quot; &gt;Last King of Scotland&lt;/a&gt;, will direct.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What&#039;s it about?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
According to Variety, &quot;Norton will play a congressman whose speedy political rise is threatened by an investigation into the death of his mistress. Pitt plays a politico-turned-journalist whose relationship with the solon is compromised when he oversees his newspaper&#039;s investigation into the murder and develops a relationship with the pol&#039;s estranged wife.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Hurrah!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
These two make an electrifying duo onscreen, and I can&#039;t wait to see them together again. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Brad-Pitt-Pictures-Cannes-Film-Festival-Killing-Them-Softly-23216069&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/192/1922398/19b6ab6fb8c50baa_bradsq.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Brad Pitt&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Brad-Pitt&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Brad Pitt&lt;/a&gt; stepped out with a smile this morning to promote &lt;b&gt;Killing Them Softly&lt;/b&gt; at the Cannes Film Festival. He joined his costars for the photocall and will hopefully have &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Angelina Jolie&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Angelina-Jolie&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Angelina Jolie&lt;/a&gt; on his arm later today for the world premiere. The movie, which we screened already, showcases a humorous and violent side of Brad, which is just the kind of work that has gotten him some of his highest praises, like &lt;b&gt;Inglourious Basterds&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;B&gt;Fight Club&lt;/b&gt;. Brad was looking every bit the movie star in his gold sunglasses as he arrived during a brief break in the rain. The weather at the festival has been less than ideal so far, but hopefully it will stay clear tonight for his big red-carpet moment. Stay tuned for all of our Cannes Film Festival updates by following &lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/popsugar&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;PopSugar on Twitter&lt;/a&gt; and checking out all the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Cannes-Film-Festival-Pictures-2012-23129985&quot; &gt;celebrity Cannes pictures&lt;/a&gt; in one place! &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Turning-My-Mom-23102644&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/1/301/3019466/a63f8d6a5e10c6c5_GT-thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;This question is from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/&quot;  &gt;Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; post in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;. Add your advice in the comments!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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Someone please help me. I have some family issues. Let me start off with my mom. I love my mom, but I can&#039;t stand the way she is. Her thoughts are very old fashioned. Let me give some examples. She said I can&#039;t move out until I&#039;m married (which is totally not going to happen, I plan to move out when I&#039;m 25 married or not). She doesn&#039;t let me or my brother go to clubs because according to her people put drugs in your drinks and start fights with you (I know both of these two things happen but I mean come on I know better) so once my brother went and she practically disowned him for like a week. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She shows me off everywhere saying that I could do this and that and that. She is very judgmental of other people, and when I don&#039;t agree with her she gets mad. She could find any excuse to fight with us, if a fly passes by she could pick a fight about it. Her facial expression is always tired, sad, angry. I&#039;m tired of it, I love her but I can&#039;t stand her ways. I&#039;m scared that I&#039;m going to end up being like her. I know I could choose the way I live my life, but monkey see monkey do. I&#039;m already starting to notice some things that I do that she does. But then again she&#039;s practically all I have in the country we live in. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I do have a brother and a stepfather but my stepfather prefers to be with his family and my brother prefers to be with his girlfriend&#039;s family. So I&#039;m left alone with her, since I don&#039;t have a boyfriend or that many friends and I feel bad if I leave her alone. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Speaking of my brother I&#039;m so disappointed in him because today we came back from a little gathering his girlfriend&#039;s family had. And oh my, he was so loving and social at the gathering and everybody loved him and knew him. Then I think of the times he&#039;s home and he&#039;s so different it&#039;s like he prefers to be with that other family. He doesn&#039;t like the way my mom is either. When he&#039;s home he is so distant from us and is out practically the whole day everyday with the girlfriend. He gets mad/irritated when we talk to him. But no when he&#039;s over with her family or just his girlfriend he&#039;s a completely different person and my stepdad does the same thing when his with his family. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So I&#039;m left with my mom and her negative attitude, and I don&#039;t want to be like her I&#039;m trying to see things I do the same as her and change them but ughhh it&#039;s all genetics and habitual behavior that it&#039;s practically now natural to act the way she does. I&#039;m just so sad at this whole situation. I love spending time with my mom and love her to death and I&#039;m thankful of everything she&#039;s done for us both, but her negative attitude, prohibitions and old fashioned thinking make me have resentment towards her. Then my brother, I have never seen him act so loving with us or any body of our family when they come to visit. Please help me on both situations. Thanks. Oh, by the way I&#039;m 21 and he&#039;s 23.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <title>Obama&#039;s Complicated Relationship With Gay Marriage</title>
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&lt;p&gt;The Obama administration has had a rocky relationship with its stance on gay marriage, so our interest was piqued at Joe Biden&#039;s recent comments in support of same-sex marriage. On &lt;b&gt;Meet the Press&lt;/b&gt; the vice president said:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&quot;I am absolutely comfortable with the fact that men marrying men, women marrying women and heterosexual - men and women marrying - are entitled to the same exact rights, all the civil rights, all the civil liberties. And quite frankly, I don&#039;t see much of a distinction beyond that.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;While Biden has made his stance on the issue clear, Barack Obama hasn&#039;t always been forthright in his support of gay marriage. And while he&#039;s been quoted as saying he&#039;s &quot;evolving&quot; in regards to gay marriage, looking at his track record we have to wonder toward which direction? And things have only gotten more complicated during this election season, when he&#039;s trying to appease liberals along with the swing voters. Not only do conservative and working-class groups oppose same-sex marriage, many of his African American supporters do, too. But what has Obama actually said on the issue? Here are some of his quotes on gay marriage:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;1996&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;I favor legalizing same-sex marriages, and would fight efforts to prohibit such marriages.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wctimes.com/images/publications/wct/2009-01-14/thedocument.jpg&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;questionnaire&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2004&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;I am a fierce supporter of domestic-partnership and civil-union laws. I am not a supporter of gay marriage as it has been thrown about, primarily just as a strategic issue.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/gay/lesbian/news/ARTICLE.php?AID=3931&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Windy City Times interview&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2006&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;I agree with most Americans, with Democrats and Republicans, with Vice President Cheney, with over 2,000 religious leaders of all different beliefs, that decisions about marriage, as they always have, should be left to the states.&quot; - Federal Marriage Amendment speech&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2007&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;I will appeal any proposal to amend the U.S. constitution to ban gays and lesbians from marrying. I know how important the issue of equal rights is to the LGBT community. I share your sense of urgency.&quot; - speech opposing Defense of Marriage Act&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2008&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;As the Democratic nominee for President, I am proud to join with and support the LGBT community in an effort to set our nation on a course that recognizes LGBT Americans with full equality under the law.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.calitics.com/showDiary.do?diaryId=6307&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;letter to the Alice B. Toklas LGBT Democratic Club&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2008&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2008/11/obama-on-mtv-i/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;MTV interview&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2010&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;I am a strong supporter of civil unions. I have been to this point unwilling to sign on to same-sex marriage primarily because of my understandings of the traditional definitions of marriage. . . . attitudes evolve, including mine. And I think that it is an issue that I wrestle with and think about . . . I think it&#039;s fair to say that it&#039;s something that I think a lot about.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://gay.americablog.com/2010/10/transcript-of-q-and-with-president.html&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;interview with liberal bloggers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;2010&lt;/b&gt;: &quot;My feelings about this are constantly evolving. This is something that we&#039;re going to continue to debate, and I personally am going to continue to wrestle with going forward.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbdRe1izJ9I&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;TV speech&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If he&#039;s going to call himself a supporter of the LGBT community, do you think it&#039;s time for Obama to commit to the gay marriage cause?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 11:25:00 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Fifty Shades of Grey, Fight Club, and the Complications of Male Dominance</title>
 <link>http://www.tressugar.com/Fifty-Shades-Grey-Male-Dominance-22845532</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Fifty-Shades-Grey-Male-Dominance-22845532&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/04/17/4/301/3019466/74c9a6e48395cf99_50.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re happy to present this story from one of our favorite sites, &lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/50-shades-of-grey-fight-club-and-the-complications-of-male-dominance&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Good Men Project&lt;/a&gt;. Clarisse Thorn sees nothing new in eroticized images of male dominance and violence, but she sees plenty that&#039;s thought-provoking.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2012/04/fifty-shades-of-linkbait.html&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Much is being made&lt;/a&gt; of the highly successful S&amp;amp;M erotica novel &lt;b&gt;50 Shades of Grey&lt;/b&gt;. People are blaming feminism for making women into submissives, blaming feminism for preventing women from being submissives, blaming women for having sexual desires at all, and a whole lot of other boring and typical stuff that comes up in any conversation about women and S&amp;amp;M. News flash: it’s not the feminist revolution that is &quot;causing&quot; women to have fantasies of submission. S&amp;amp;M fantasies have been around since the beginning of time. (And the 1950s S&amp;amp;M-sensation book, &lt;b&gt;The Story of O&lt;/b&gt;, was much better written than &lt;b&gt;50 Shades of Grey&lt;/b&gt;.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/top-10-reasons-to-use-condoms/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Top 10 Reasons to Use Condoms&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As an S&amp;amp;M writer, I hear a lot of allegations about how &quot;all&quot; (or &quot;almost all&quot;) women are sexually submissive and how this must Mean Something. This is echoed in the coverage of &lt;b&gt;50 Shades of Grey&lt;/b&gt;, in which everyone is demanding to know What It All Means About Women. I wrote a piece a while back called &lt;a href=&quot;http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2011/07/01/inherent-female-submission-the-wrong-question/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Inherent Female Submission: The Wrong Question,&lt;/a&gt; in which I took on a lot of this stuff. But there’s another submerged question here - about men. There’s plenty of talk and stereotypes about how men are inherently violent, or more aggressive than women, or &quot;the dominant sex.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/Fifty-Shades-Grey-Male-Dominance-22845532#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;Keep reading below.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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