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 <title>New LCD Soundsystem: &quot;Big Ideas&quot; For the Movie 21 </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/New-LCD-Soundsystem-Big-Ideas-Movie-21-1074979&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/upl0/1/13839/09_2008/51n-jbP97iL._SS500_.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;If the new track by LCD Soundsystem, &quot;Big Ideas,&quot; sounds like it could be in a movie, well, &lt;a href=&quot;http://stereogum.com/archives/new-lcd-soundsystem-big-ideas-stereogum-premiere_008203.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;it is&lt;/a&gt;! The fast-paced, slightly robotic-sounding song was commissioned for the Kevin Spacey movie &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/tag/21%20movie&quot; &gt;21&lt;/a&gt; in which a bunch of MIT students use their brains to count cards at a Vegas casino and swindle their way to millions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://stereogum.com/archives/new-lcd-soundsystem-big-ideas-stereogum-premiere_008203.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Stereogum&lt;/a&gt;, which premiered the song recently, suggests it will be used for a chase scene, though I think it might be placed during some kind of montage, like when all the students are honing their skills in preparation to win big at the casino. What do you think?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To take a listen to &quot;Big Ideas,&quot; &lt;/p&gt;
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 <title>The Muppets&#039; Music Man Bret McKenzie on His Oscar Nod and Taking a Silly Job Seriously</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Bret-McKenzie-Interview-Muppets-21664197&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/06/2/192/1922398/478e9f2372a01e5d_bret5x5.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bret McKenzie is up for an exceedingly rare honor this year, with his ballad &quot;Man or Muppet&quot; earning one of just two nominations in the Oscars&#039; best song category. I caught up with &lt;b&gt;The Muppets&lt;/b&gt;&#039; musical supervisor today at Walt Disney Studios in Burbank to chat about the awards attention and the unique experience of penning music for Kermit and company. The New Zealand native talked about fighting the temptation to use the word &quot;motherfrogger&quot; in his songwriting and the roundabout way he came on board &lt;b&gt;The Muppets&lt;/b&gt; project in the first place. Bret - who previously was best known as one half of the musical comedy duo Flight of the Conchords - also shared his hopes of bringing FOC to the big screen. Check out our conversation below:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;PopSugar: It&#039;s got to be an honor to be nominated for an Oscar, but also in a year when the Academy only bothered to nominate two songs.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Bret McKenzie:&lt;/b&gt; They barely nominated anyone! When I found out, it sounded like there&#039;d been a mistake, and yeah, it&#039;s a huge honor. It&#039;s great and it&#039;s really exciting, and I&#039;m not complaining that there&#039;s only two nominees the year I&#039;m nominated. I mean, this is the best chance I&#039;ll have of winning an Oscar, ever. It couldn&#039;t have been better, unless there was just one nomination, and then it would be a very dull ceremony . . . There&#039;s a lot of legendary musicians - tunesmiths - in that list of possible nominations. So it&#039;s all very surreal to think that I got in ahead of Elton John. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;PS: And &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Madonna&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Madonna&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Madonna&lt;/a&gt;. Those two had a little rivalry going on.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; I know. I got nervous about what Elton John&#039;s husband was going to say about me. It&#039;s crazy, and it&#039;s great for &lt;b&gt;The Muppets&lt;/b&gt; film, because we&#039;re all really proud of the film and it wasn&#039;t ever really going to get a best actor. Hey, Jason&#039;s good, that&#039;s not what I mean, but Kermit, Miss Piggy - they can&#039;t win these awards - and comedies don&#039;t generally get recognized at these awards ceremonies, so it&#039;s kind of cool. It&#039;s almost like the film as a whole is being recognized with this category.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For more from our chat with Bret, including what he says about his plans for a Flight of the Conchords film, coaching &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Jason Segel&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Jason-Segel&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Jason Segel&lt;/a&gt;, and the pressure he felt on the project, just &lt;/p&gt;
read more!

&lt;b&gt;PS: What was the biggest unexpected challenge for you writing music for the film? I know you talked about one draft of a song where you referred to a Muppet as a piece of felt and were told you couldn&#039;t do that.&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; Yeah. Little piece of felt, and you couldn&#039;t say things like motherfrogger, even though it&#039;s very tempting. There were lots of hard parts to it. The Muppets can&#039;t sing certain notes. They can&#039;t sing too high or the voice changes and doesn&#039;t sound like the right character. There were so many weird things. I spent hours recording penguins and rats, and what&#039;s weird is that it&#039;s such a silly job, but you have to take it very seriously. So I would be in the studio for days, maybe a whole day recording penguins, and then I&#039;m like, &quot;I&#039;m not happy with how the penguins are sounding! Where&#039;s penguin four?&quot; You know, getting demanding. &quot;We lost penguin track four! I can&#039;t hear the penguin!&quot;

&lt;b&gt;PS: I was watching the movie again last night and watching Jason Segel&#039;s performance of &quot;Man or Muppet.&quot; Did you coach him on any of his rockstar moves? Because he pretty much nailed it.&lt;/b&gt; 
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; He nailed it. That&#039;s my favorite moment in the film. When he buckles down in the rain, that was one of my favorite shots. I was so proud of what James [Bobin, the director] and those guys achieved, because I wasn&#039;t there on set, I just saw them syncing the video, and I was like, &quot;Wow, guys. You nailed it.&quot; What we did do in the studio, as Jason and I had a technique where I would sing a line, and he&#039;d watch me through the window, and then he&#039;d sing it back. So we did this thing where, I was really into the drama of it. So, I was like, &quot;Am I a Muppppettt?&quot; [balling his hands into fists] And he&#039;d be like, OK, record. &quot;Am I a Muppppettt!&quot; So we kind of worked together to get that style.

&lt;b&gt;PS: Did it shatter some of your childhood illusions to have the guy that does Miss Piggy&#039;s voice come work with you [in the recording studio]?&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; Yeah. Well, it wasn&#039;t Frank Oz. The guy Eric, who does it now, yeah. That was strange. And the day that we recorded Kermit the Frog doing &quot;Rainbow Connection&quot; - I was sort of pinching myself, because that was probably one of the real moments for me where I realized that my world had really changed. That I&#039;d come from New Zealand, I&#039;d grown up with Kermit the Frog, and now I was in Hollywood in a studio recording Kermit the Frog. It felt like worlds had collided.

&lt;b&gt;PS: Was there pressure knowing there was already this great catalog of Muppet songs? To try to add to that or top it in some way?&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; I knew I wouldn&#039;t top &quot;Rainbow Connection,&quot; but I was very intimidated, but the way I worked on the job was it actually started with me just writing one song, so I didn&#039;t feel the pressure of writing the whole movie. I think it would have been different if I&#039;d been hired from the outset to do all the music. So I wrote one, then another, and gradually wrote more and more, so that helped.

&lt;b&gt;PS: What song did you write first?&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; The opening song. That&#039;s the one they needed, that&#039;s the one James asked me to write first. The script was probably on a second draft, and they were in preproduction, so I came in quite late. And the way they were doing it was, they got 100s of demos submitted from all sorts of songwriters, and surprisingly - even though they got some really great people to do demos - people weren&#039;t quite hitting the right tone. The Muppet tone. I&#039;d just come off the Conchords tour and I had some time, and James asked if I was interested in doing that opening song, because he had a kind of specific thing he needed from that song. He needed it to be really Muppet-y, that song, and he had a great idea for the whole town joining in, it starting off small and becoming a big musical number, and that came together really well. 

&lt;b&gt;PS: Is this experience maybe something you want to bring to a Flight of the Conchords movie?&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; Yeah, exactly. Having done this movie now, we&#039;re in a much better place to do a Conchords film, because James is more experienced - well, we&#039;re all more experienced. Not specifically, but James Bobin - well, we&#039;re all very keen to do another studio musical, because I really enjoyed being able to do comedy musical numbers on such a grand scale, and I think next time, I really think it will just get better and better. Because it&#039;s such a fun genre, and we&#039;ve done like 50 songs for TV now, and now &lt;b&gt;The Muppets&lt;/b&gt; movie, and I feel like we&#039;ve accidentally sort of become musical comedy experts. 

&lt;b&gt;PS: What do you imagine Bret and Jemaine from Flight of the Conchords are up to these days, in their universe?&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;b&gt;BM:&lt;/b&gt; In the Lower East Side? That&#039;s a good question. I reckon they probably got a regular gig now. Like, at a Chinese restaurant.

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 <pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:50:41 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>Do You Think Smash Is Worth the Hype?</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Smash-TV-Show-Review-21663225&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/02/06/2/192/1922283/386f8409793050f7_mar-thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;NBC&#039;s Broadway drama &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/smash&quot; &gt;Smash&lt;/a&gt; premiered this week after what felt like tons of promotion, introducing us to a group of producers who come up with an idea for a Marilyn Monroe-themed musical. We also met the two young women who want to star in it: Karen (Katharine McPhee), the small-town girl trying to make it big, and Ivy (Megan Hilty), the capable pro who seems tailor-made for the part. The first episode is definitely consuming - I&#039;ll keep tuning in to see who wins the coveted role as Marilyn, but I&#039;m also just as intrigued by what&#039;s going on behind the scenes with the production team (thanks to talented heavy hitters like &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Debra Messing&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Debra-Messing&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Debra Messing&lt;/a&gt; and Anjelica Huston). For those who tuned in, I want to know what you thought; did &lt;b&gt;Smash&lt;/b&gt; deserve all the hype around it? And more importantly, will you keep watching?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Smash-TV-Show-Review-21663225&quot; &gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 11:16:57 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>Pilot Scoop: Smash</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Smash-TV-Show-Pilot-Review-21394838&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/01/03/3/192/1922283/a5cde03280363b2c_smash-thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;NBC is getting in on musical madness with new show &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/smash&quot; &gt;Smash&lt;/a&gt;, a drama that follows the production of a musical about Marilyn Monroe and the two ingénues vying for the lead. With  high production value and an ensemble cast that includes &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Debra Messing&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Debra-Messing&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Debra Messing&lt;/a&gt; and Anjelica Huston, the show is a colorful, splashy, and tune-filled entrant into the midseason lineup. Before you check out tonight&#039;s premiere, check out my first impressions below.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;What it&#039;s about:&lt;/b&gt; The first episode charts the early development of the musical &lt;b&gt;Marilyn&lt;/b&gt;, the brainchild of a few theater producers (including Messing and Huston). As the idea germinates, the showrunners have to make the difficult decision of who to cast as Marilyn Monroe: the seasoned, Ivy (Megan Hilty), who&#039;s also a dead-ringer for Marilyn, or inexperienced Karen (Katharine McPhee) who comes in at the last minute and knocks their socks off.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Where it works:&lt;/b&gt; Former &lt;b&gt;American Idol&lt;/b&gt; contestant McPhee is an inspired choice here; we&#039;ve all heard her sing, but it turns out that she can also act. She&#039;s charming and plucky as Karen, the girl who&#039;s a waitress by night so she can nurture her dream of making it big on Broadway. I also enjoyed seeing her home life with her supportive (and dashing) boyfriend played by Raza Jaffrey.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Where it doesn&#039;t:&lt;/b&gt; It&#039;s unclear how much of the musical the series will be. In the opener, we hear numbers from &lt;b&gt;Marilyn&lt;/b&gt; and familiar tunes like &quot;Beautiful&quot; in auditions, but when Ivy and Karen break into song at the end of the hour, it doesn&#039;t feel that organic - or necessary.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;When it&#039;s on:&lt;/b&gt; Mondays at 10 p.m. on NBC, starting Feb. 6&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;You might like this show if:&lt;/b&gt; You like &lt;b&gt;Glee&lt;/b&gt;, but this show is even more appealing to theater fans.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;See a preview for &lt;b&gt;Smash&lt;/b&gt; and photos &lt;a href=&quot;/Smash-TV-Show-Pilot-Review-21394838#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the break.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 13:04:40 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>Are You Ready For Marriage, Or Are You Rushing Into It? </title>
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I was a little girl I remember watching all the Disney Princess movies (You know the ones: Beauty and the Beast, Cinderella, Snow White, Aladdin… there seemed to be an endless supply), and I loved everything about those fairy tale stories-the handsome prince, the white dress, the cake, the pumpkin stagecoach, and the big castle to live happily ever after in-I always pictured my future playing out just like my favorite princesses. Doesn&#039;t every girl?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We all know the saying &quot;first comes love, then comes marriage,&quot; and when you feel you&#039;ve found your perfect match, you start to picture yourself eventually settling down. You see the future, you see building a strong and wonderful married life together, and even creating a family. You start imagining fairy tales and castles and Cinderella dresses . . .&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But you know what? It&#039;s not that simple. I wish it were. There&#039;s a lot more to marriage than just the love you feel for one another. The Beatles&#039; might have said, &quot;All you need is love,&quot; but real life doesn&#039;t work that way. Ever. Marriage requires effort. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Before you start calling up &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Wedding&quot; href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Wedding&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;wedding&lt;/a&gt; coordinators and venues, before you start looking for a dress and picking out a cake, put away your emotions long enough to ask yourself a few questions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What makes this person The One? &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Out of all the relationships you&#039;ve been in, what makes this person the one for you?  Answering this question is crucial to prevent yourself from entering a marriage for all the wrong reasons. Never pressure yourself with the idea that you may never have another opportunity to get married.  There&#039;s always time. Your wedding is just one day while your marriage is for a lifetime. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I met my husband&#039;s family for the first time I saw first hand how he treated his sisters. His sisters are 13 and 20 years younger than he is, and when I saw them together, I knew he&#039;d be a great father. Among his other great qualities, that&#039;s what sealed the deal for me.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Do you share the same values?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Issues about careers, finances, raising children, discipline, sex, spending, religion, and values are the most important subjects that need to be addressed before you even think about engagement rings. If you can&#039;t plan for and effectively discuss these topics with your partner, you won&#039;t be able to merge your two lives together with any amount of success. If you don&#039;t feel comfortable bringing them up, then you&#039;re not ready to say, &quot;I do.&quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When my husband and I started dating we talked about our personal values and beliefs. We found we shared more in common than either one of us thought. Coming from similar family backgrounds, we found it easy to envision a future together, and another way that made merging our lives together almost effortless.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Get more questions to ask yourself when you finish reading the rest of the story on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/2012133993/are-you-ready-marriage-or-are-you-rushing-it&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com/2012133993/are-you-ready-marriage-or-are-you-rushing-it&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Are You Ready For Marriage, Or Are You Rushing Into It? &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Written by Alisha Cornett for YourTango.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;More from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/201064826/10-most-romantic-movie-moments&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com/201064826/10-most-romantic-movie-moments&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;10 Most Romantic Movie Moments&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/7-beauty-myths-are-damaging-your-love-life&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.yourtango.com/experts/7-beauty-myths-are-damaging-your-love-life&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Beauty Myths That Are Damaging Your Love Life &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;Source: &lt;a href=&quot;http://blog.brancoprata.com/2011/12/02/festa-de-aniversario-birthday-party-3/&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;blog.brancoprata.com/2011/12/02/festa-de-aniversario-birthday-party-3/&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Branco Prata&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;Increase your income with these &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/How-Earn-More-Money-2012-21555436&quot; &gt;five ideas&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/Where-Buy-Used-Wedding-Goods-21576075&quot; &gt;profit from your breakup&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Thinking about planning a trip? Find great deals at these &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.savvysugar.com/Travel-Flash-Sale-Sites-21586317&quot; &gt;travel flash sale sites&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re thrilled to present this smart &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wisebread.com/25-easy-organizing-changes-you-can-make-today&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.wisebread.com/25-easy-organizing-changes-you-can-make-today&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Wise Bread&lt;/a&gt; story here on Savvy!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There&#039;s a problem with a lot of productivity advice out there, and it&#039;s this - your &quot;rules&quot; for personal productivity are often going to be different than mine. Sure, sometimes there&#039;s overlap. Sure, you can always learn from others.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But if you want to see a dramatic increase in your productivity, spend less time reading and memorizing other people&#039;s rules, and more time figuring out what your own rules are. You&#039;ll be more productive and in a way that works with who you are. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wisebread.com/5-efficient-ways-to-boost-productivity&quot; onclick=&quot;trackOutboundLink(&#039;###CATEGORY###&#039;, &#039;www.wisebread.com/5-efficient-ways-to-boost-productivity&#039;, &#039;###LABEL###&#039;)&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Related: Five Efficient Ways to Boost Productivity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So I&#039;m sharing a few of my personal productivity rules. Maybe some of them will work for you or inspire you to think of your own.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. Small Daily Movements Become Big Accomplishments&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I tend to think that I must have big blocks of time in order to get any forward movement. So I hesitate and procrastinate, waiting for that &quot;open time&quot; when I can really push and get a lot done on whatever the current project is.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Turns out, that&#039;s a waste of time. Small daily movements add up. It&#039;s just that the movements or steps themselves are so small, I think they don&#039;t count. They do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have to constantly remind myself that I don&#039;t need a whole day or a whole week to devote to some project. I just need to take the 10 or 20 minutes I have here and there and use them. I need to achieve a little bit of forward movement every day. That adds up, and it builds momentum, and pretty soon there&#039;s been quite a lot accomplished.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/How-Increase-My-Productivity-21592089#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;For more rules, read after the jump.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Glee-Recap-Michael-21576795&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/01/05/2/192/1922283/0adb91efefedc2cf_thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;When I heard that &lt;b&gt;Glee&lt;/b&gt; was performing a &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Michael Jackson&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Michael-Jackson&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Michael Jackson&lt;/a&gt; tribute, I basically starting moonwalking across the floor, but the episode didn&#039;t quite live up to my expectations. I definitely appreciated the effort, and there were absolutely some standout performances, but I would have loved more Jackson 5 or old-school Michael disco tunes.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;With so many songs crammed in, there&#039;s very little in the way of plot here. Basically, the entire episode is about the rivalry between the New Directions and the Warblers, and Sebastian emerges as the show&#039;s new villain when he hits Blaine with a jacked-up slushie. Oh, and Rachel finally gives Finn an answer to his proposal! Ready to break it all down? Just &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;The episode opens up with a big, beautiful MJ-filled bang - Blaine leads the New Directions with what he thinks is the perfect song for Regionals. I absolutely loved this performance of &quot;Wanna Be Startin&#039; Something.&quot;  Blaine is stepping into his role with the club perfectly; he&#039;s become my favorite male voice on the show.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Finn asks Rachel for a response to his proposal, but Rachel feels pressured and needs more time. She nearly gives her answer, before Finn cuts her off and agrees that she deserves as much time as she needs. When Rachel asks for Quinn&#039;s advice, Quinn announces that she&#039;s been accepted to Yale and gives Rachel her honest opinion - that she should break it off with Finn. This moment in the bathroom is a perfect lead-in for her performance of the classic Jackson 5 tune &quot;Never Can Say Goodbye,&quot; which ultimately turns into a montage of all Quinn&#039;s lost loves on the show. Regardless of the totally cheesy nature, I thought her voice was spot on for this song.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;While the New Directions have decided to perform Michael Jackson for Regionals, Sebastian and the Warblers get wind of the idea from Blaine and decide to do it as well. Eventually, Santana and Sebastian and their respective crews battle it out to decide who&#039;s &quot;bad&quot;? The performance definitely pays homage to the original video and its &lt;b&gt;West Side Story&lt;/b&gt; influence, but the whole thing just felt pretty underwhelming to me. That is, until Blaine gets slushied with a drink that&#039;s been seriously tampered with, scratching his cornea. Artie becomes so enraged with the whole thing that he goes to a dream sequence where he and Mike Chang perform a super-long version of the Janet and Michael Jackson tune &quot;Scream.&quot; I was excited to see Artie&#039;s killer moves, but Mike as Janet was a bit over the top.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;There are two musical highlights of the episode for me. The first is Mercedes and Sam performing &quot;Human Nature&quot; - the whole thing gave me the chills I had been expecting for the last twenty minutes. The icing on the cake? The two kiss at the end!  Later on, Santana and Sebastian battle it out one-on-one &quot;Smooth Criminal&quot; style, accompanied by only a duo of cellos.  I was so glad that Santana got to take the lead on this one, and I was absolutely impressed by Sebastian&#039;s voice. I doubt this is the last we&#039;ll be seeing of him.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Rachel and Finn perform &quot;I Just Can&#039;t Stop Loving You&quot; back in the choir room. It&#039;s pretty good, but I didn&#039;t really care either way whether she accepted his proposal. She ends up accepting, but it feels like a pretty mediocre experience given the most recent episode. Plus, she gets her letter as a NYADA finalist, so let&#039;s see if this sticks.&lt;/li&gt;
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