Welcome back Buzz Book Club readers! How are you enjoying Sloane Crosely's I Was Told There'd Be Cake so far? I find her voice to be highly relatable, and I'm definitely guilty of snorting with laughter while reading her book in public. She's already given us a lot to talk about in this first section, that's for sure.
Here's a recap of how the Book Club goes if you're new: Every week I'll suggest chapters to complete by the next post (which, in this case, will go up every Friday in July). In these weekly Book Club posts, I'll posit a few questions to prompt discussion in the comments section.
Of course, you are always welcome to read beyond the weekly chapters, but please don't spoil anything in the comments! After the jump you'll find some questions that struck me as I read this section.
The next assignment: Read the stories "The Good People of This Dimension," "Bastard out of Westchester," "The Beauty of Strangers," "F**k You, Columbus," and "One-Night Bounce." We'll chat about this second section next Friday, July 11.
To discuss the first section of I Was Told There'd Be Cake in which we read the first four stories in the book ("The Pony Problem," "Christmas in July," "The Ursula Cookie," and "Bring-Your-Machete-to-Work Day.") read more!
- For readers of a certain age, Crosley's stories are undoubtedly relatable. I had several moments where I actually cried out "I did that!" One of mine was in "Bring-Your-Machete-to-Work Day," when Crosley admitted to putting people she disliked on her Oregon Trail wagon and then overloading it on purpose so they'd struggle (I know, for shame). What were some of yours?
- On a similar note, I found Crosley's experience with her first boss to be funny, sad — and familiar. Was your experience in your first job after college anything like hers?
- And again on the topic of relating to the material: Do you think her work is funnier because you can relate (or if you can't relate, do you not find her writing very funny/enjoyable)? David Sedaris does memoir/humor writing well in that many of his experiences are worlds away from my own, but I still find myself howling with laughter. I wonder if this is the same thing for readers who don't relate to Crosley's experiences.
- Some of Crosley's stories ("Christmas in July") are sprawling, taking on lots of different topics — fire, religion, neighborhood playdates, lice. Others ("The Ursula Cookie") have a tighter focus on a single person or experience. Do you have a preference so far?
- I liked the line in "The Pony Problem" where Crosley admitted that her pony obsession was a manufactured quirk: "What am I asking when I ask for a pony but to be taken for more unique than I probably am?" As a reader, it made me wonder what other things Crosley must have done to construct a persona that gets her into all the wacky situations she writes about. At a time when James Frey and even David Sedaris have been taken to task for making things up in their memoirs, how honest do you expect Crosley to be?
- Just for fun: What's your equivalent of Crosley's pony collection, the thing you'd be embarrassed to have someone discover in your apartment? Mine would probably be a framed picture of me with my face Photoshopped near Harrison Ford's shoulder so it looks like we’re gazing out at the sunset together.

















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I have heard about this before, I want to read it! I will have to go grab a copy asap!!
1Buzz,
I don't want to be a buzz wrecker (no pun intended!) but I'm just not getting the hype over this book. Yes, there are some funny moments, but so many of the writings are so disjointed and based completely on self-entitlement. It's not for me so far, but I will finish what I started.
2...what I have started.
3fuzzles — no problem! I hadn't read the book before we started for Book Club, either, so I wasn't sure if it would live up to the hype and thought it would be fun to find out together. Personally, I'm enjoying it so far, but I know all the Book Club books might not be for everyone. I'd be curious to know your thoughts as the book goes on, though -- I like a good debate!
41. I didn't really relate to any of the moments so far. That doesn't mean I wasn't laughing! I loved the Oregon Trail section, I played that game when I was not old enough to realize how fun it would be to make people you don't like suffer. I was laughing during that part because I honestly never would have thought to do that.
52. My first job out of college wasn't as bad as Crosley's (thought it is still burned into my brain). My boss didn't get along with many people and was a micro-manager, but I never was stressed to the point that she was. It is sad that so many people have awful experiences the first time out of college, it is an experience that I wish I could undo!
3. I think her essays are funny because, so far, I can't really relate. If my first job out of college had been like hers I probably would have skipped the chapter or cried myself to sleep. I do feel that for me the stories are funnier because I can't relate!
4. I think I like the stories with a tighter focus, although I also like the other stories! I just like the whole book so far!
5. I thought this story was a great way to open the book. To be honest, when I read these books, I don't expect them to be 100% true. Maybe the scandal surrounding James Frey has tainted me...
6. My equivalent of the ponies would have to be a notebook on my bookshelf with my weight written down (I have several of these). I would never want anyone to find these notebooks, it would be mortifying!
I laughed so hard when she mentioned Oregon Trail. I found myself nodding in the beginning of that story totally relating. It was the reason I looked forward to computer lab in elementary school. I don’t have a random pony collection, though…
Uh, I’ll get back to you in about a year when I do get my first job out of college. However, that boss situation reminded me so much of “The Devil Wears Prada.”
For the things I can relate to, I find it hilarious the way she describes the situations she’s in. I only wish I was quick-witted enough to react the way she does. For the things I can’t relate to, I still thought Crosely’s re-telling was entertaining and it gave me ammo in case I ever find myself in those situations.
I have always been a fan of more focused writing in general. Stories that go every which way tend to confuse me.
I understand Crosely is writing to entertain, so I don’t know if I can take absolutely everything she writes as fact. As part of my college graduation project, I am working on a memoir of my time in the military. In the process, I am beginning to understand why authors might add those quirky details.
When I was a teenager, I used to collect pigs. I found them adorable! As I am quite nomadic now, I only have one that I have kept through the years. It was a Christmas present. It’s a stuffed pig and when you squeeze it, it oinks a Christmas carol.
6I randomly bought this book a few weeks ago and then you made it the book of the month! I've only read the first two sections but I have really enjoyed what I have read so far. Frankly it is just nice to read something funny! I've been reading way too many serious books lately.
7Buzz, I know what you're getting at when you say that some of Crosley's stories are "sprawling" in the sense that they seem to discuss a lot in a short amount of time, but I find the most sprawling one in the book to be the one you think is the least so: "The Ursula Cookie." I find that story to be one of the weakest in the collection because it is rather unfocused in its narrowness and totally loses its narrative after 9/11. Now, that may be the point, for the narrative to fall apart after the city of NY -- and Ursula -- does, but even so, it really lost me as a reader at that point. That story is far too long for its own good.
And I, too, am guilty of loading my Oregon Trail wagon with people I disliked and intentionally killing them. Such sadistic fun.
8I can't see the title of this book without thinking of Milton from Office Space.
9Hi,
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